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Not Using Condoms, Any Suggestion?

My friend is having sex with his girl friend. She's now on the pill, and has talked him into not using condoms anymore. She says it will feel better. I don't know what's behind her motive. She has no others friends and she doesn't like any of his. This is her first boy friend both are 17. Any suggestion? Or just leave things alone.

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    I think that the guy should still use the condom. A lot of men get deceived by women that way. They'll say that they are on a pill or shot. Then they'll get pregnant to trap you and the next thing you know is that you are paying child support. The boyfriend should use a rubber just to make sure. If she can't understand that then she has some growing to do because nobody wants to have unwanted kids esp. Men because when most guys are young, they aren't ready to settle down and women need to know and understand that. So he should wear a condom because if she gets pregnant and he decides to leave her then it comes to him finding a job and he owes child support, he's going to be broke because she can file for child support from her. He needs to reconsider that. Some women cn be conniving. Tell him 2 be careful and reconsider this situation.
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    Jaxson1985 

    answered 2 years ago

    i dont know who gave me 2 stars, but i was just warning some of the guys out there about some of the women. now i know dis is none of 89ford's business on these couples, but if he knows what's going on between them, evidently somebody's told him and needs advice. i'm thinking the guy told him. i agree with faydra on her answer, but still there are some conniving women out there to deceive guys. i was just keepin' it real on how some women are and if i lie then i'm fake.
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    Jaxson1985

    Jaxson1985

    commented 2 years ago

    Your right he did tell me. I think it's has cross his mind about her wanting a baby. They both are out of school this year and he's just wants to go out and have fun. We think she's has other plans.
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    89ford

    89ford

    commented 2 years ago

      I see no problem with them not using condoms AS LONG AS they are both monogamous.  The danger would be if one of them strays and has sex with a third person and brings back a STD.

      I don't think it's any of your business or concern.  I also think it's irrelevant to your condom question on her not having any other friends and not liking any of his.

      You say that she talked him into not using condoms - it could easily have been the other way around and that HE talked her into this.  Remember that you always are getting just one half of the story.

      One important thing I learned growing up was NEVER to get involved in another friend's relationship.  You can be a good listener and offer advice but never take a side.  For example, if they have a fight and you say degrading things about her and they make up, your friend could end up mad at you for what you said about her.
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      Faydra 

      answered 2 years ago

      faydra, i agree with you on not getting into people's relationship problems. you have made a very good point because i have friends that sort of have problems and i just give advice but i don't take any sides becuz when u do, and after they make up, then they are both mad at you. isn't that something. good advice you gave and keep up the good work.
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      Jaxson1985

      Jaxson1985

      commented 2 years ago

        Condoms are a safety net for many things. And should be worn at all times. Even if your married you just don't know now days who or what type of disease is out there.
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        Aanadawna 

        answered 2 years ago

        Maybe he want have baby with he, or maybe he just want sex  feel better , after she will take urgent pill for this , just live like this , if she have baby , its she problem, because its she say like that , or if u friend is worry about baby just be careful time , don't put semen inside ,
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        Elvira23 

        answered 2 years ago

        It's perfectly fine to not use a condom, so long as your using other types of contraception. Is she familiar with the pill? How long have her and her boyfriend been going out?
        Most people tend to use condoms at first, especially if there not in a relationship but there's nothing wrong with switching to the pill if you have sex on a regular basis and trust the other person. Be careful about Stds though, make sure they both get checked or are certain about their sexual past.
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        Louiseey 

        answered 2 years ago

          Keep up the Diligent 'policing' the neighborhood...so the safest & least likely customs to trouble will be followed. No new population additions,  not till both parties involved are financially independent and the remotest action to handoff Stds are practiced, every time and every way!
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          Dtagliento 

          answered 2 years ago

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