If your partners best friend tried it on with you , would you go with them knowing that your partner would never find out. Your partner`s best friend is stunning and knows it as well.What would you do. Please be honest.
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Hi, first of all your mate's best friend, any friend, family member or business associate, should all be off limits to you. Do you have any self respect? Would you like your mate to do this to you? What are you thinking? What did your mate do to you, to make you want to destroy your relationship and your image? If you do not want to be with your mate, end the relationship now, do not bring in other people to do your dirty work. It seems to me you have a serious problem and you really need to seek professional help. No I would never go with my mate's Best Friend. Take Care!
answered 12 months ago
I would never cheat. It took me forever to find the man of my dreams and nothing is worth risking losing him. That's the truth.
answered 11 months ago
It really depends on your personal values. Myself, I would never cheat even if I knew that my spouse would never find out because I would know and would have a difficult time living with myself if I did.
answered 12 months ago
you should never cheat because it is wrong and if you believe in forgiveness just for give whoever cheated on you don't try and get payback
comment made by Babygirl18 10 months ago 
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I agree with the other comment. What are you thinking? It sounds like you're not too satisfied or happy with your boyfriend. You need to be honest with yourself...in the long run...your both likely to get hurt.
Good luck!
answered 12 months ago
If you have found the one you love--your best friend, soul mate, lover, and life companion, how could you think of "cheating" on them??!! Sure you might be flattered by someone Else's attention and feel attractive but WAKE UP to the intense feeling of betrayal you will put your partner through. Unless your significant other is blind, deaf or dumb, they will sense a change in the relationship. Have the courtesy to sever the relationship before starting another one.
answered 11 months ago
I have been cheated on and let me tell you it is a terrible thing - it's even worse if you're the guy's friend.
My girlfriend cheated on me with a guy that I had already previously disliked so that was a huge slap in the face. But I think it'd be an even bigger slap in the face if I found out my best friend did it.
Just use the golden rule: Do onto others as you would want to be done onto you.
Would you want to be cheated on by your best friend? Yes or no? If yes, you don't care then you need to try to think about how your friend may think of it. If no, then don't do it. Period.
answered 11 months ago
"Be sure your sins will find you out." Never in a million years could I ever cheat on my husband. First: I'd have to live with the guilt of what I did; even if he didn't find out. Second: That's just not how I was brought up. Third, and most importantly: I'd have to answer to God. You MUST separate yourself from "the friend". Cut off all ties IMMEDIATELY! Don't let the "spark" ignite!
answered 11 months ago
I have to agree with all of the previous answers! How would you feel if this were done to you? How could you live with the guilt?
answered 11 months ago
I had that happen to me except it was my best friends husband. I would never jeopardize my friendship.
answered 11 months ago
Not in a million years. And I would feel terrible just knowing that my partner's "best" friend was such a nasty two-faced person.
answered 11 months ago
No I would never cheat on spouse....I know, how that feels like, My first husband did that.
answered 11 months ago
My advice is if you love her, if you truly love your wife then don't cheat on her, just don't because she could find out and what are you going to do then!
answered 11 months ago
Good morning janowens77,
Quite frankly I cannot believe that you could ask such a question!
Do you really disrespect yourself so much that you would ever consider doing such a thing? Do you value yourself so little that you are willing to disrespect yourself in that way? If you don't respect yourself, how will others be able to respect you?
Please, really think about this because this is about you! I really don't think you should want to consider putting yourself in this situation, now or ever; it's just too dangerous! I definitely agree with health lady in that friends, family members and business associates are always off limits in all situations, no matter what.
I believe that you need to look deep inside yourself janowens, because I think that perhaps, like a many of us, you may have a deep-seated issue that needs to be addressed and resolved as soon as possible and not even realize it.
Why don't you talk to your friend about this? I have found in my own life that laying the cards on the table is the best thing to do because it opens up many new lines of communication – some good and some not so good, but at least we know where the other is coming from and how they feel.
By the way, please keep in mind that the partners ALWAYS find out, no matter what. I've seen it happen to a few of my friends way too many times.
Please forgive me if I was a bit too frank in my response today jan owens; it's the mommy response, and when I saw your question I immediately thought of my 22 year-old daughter. I'd really hate to see either of you mess up your lives. Take good care and please keep in touch! Jo.
answered 11 months ago
I am in a perfectly happy relationship and all I was doing was just asking a question. People just assumed that it was about me but nothing could be further from the truth. It has certainly provoked a lot of interest though.
comment made by Ianowens77 11 months ago
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It is wrong but to me it really depends on how much I care about the girl and what the situation is.
answered 11 months ago
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that goes double here! how can you even think of it! if you truly care - why would you even consider it...
comment made by Anon 11 months ago
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