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Please Can You Help Me Save My Relationship With My Girlfriend... Its Killing Me :(?

We have problems quite a lot... They are small but they they really hurt... Our most recent is the way she acts towards one of her guy friends... I know theres nothing between them but it still really gets to me. I told her this and what she said back in a nut-shell is that shes not going to stop because she doesnt want to change. I really love her and i want to resolve this as soon as possible.

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    Hmmm ...  Tough one - how long have you been going out?
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    Waterguy 

    answered 9 months ago

    It will be 5 months on the 12th... Im only 16 but she means the world to me
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    Nufnuf

    Nufnuf

    commented 9 months ago

    To be blunt, if she doesn't care that you dislike the way she acts around this guy, then my advice is to tell her your are upset about it. If she still doesn't care, then you need to face the reality that she may not be the one for you. It's hard to hear but sometimes it's true.

    You're young - hell of a lot of great girls out there, you'll find one that treats you just right...
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    Waterguy

    Waterguy

    commented 9 months ago

    Youre probably right... I thought about it like that but i was hoping it wouldnt have to turn that way... Thing is, it doesnt seem like her at all
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    Nufnuf

    Nufnuf

    commented 9 months ago

      You have your whole life ahead of you to be that serious with one person. If it makes you uncomfortable in your relationship and you shared with her how you feel and she is not willing to subdue to your feelings than I would re-examine your relationship and/or re-examine self.
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      Nquizativ 

      answered 8 months ago

        Try talking to another girl more than usual. When she says something about it, remind her she is doing the same thing. Then she might consider changing a little bit.
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        Mollysue 

        answered 8 months ago

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