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How Can I Make The Difference Between Lust And Love?

Not long ago I met a man. I get on really well with him and there is a strong mutual attraction. The trouble is that at the moment he claims it is almost entirely sexual on his part and though he does not rule out feeling something stronger, his first concern is to go to bed with me. From the beginning I have felt attracted to him on more than one level. Would it be better to sleep with him or to say no?

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    The main differences between love and lust are:

    1-Lust is something that you feel instantly while love grows on you with time.

    2-Lust is for self gratification and love is for your concern for other person.That is lust serves self while love serves other.

    3-Lust is a physical feeling while love is an emotion.

    Now check which of the things he does are related to love more or lust.If he is tainted towards lust then you should not continue with him.
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    Amaq443 

    answered 2 years ago

      it's neither love nor lust.....its just infatuation.....wait a minute and think if he is the person without whom u cannot live ur life....if yes then go ahead....else wait....don't jump into a conclusion
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      Kitty23 

      answered 2 years ago

           
           

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