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My Name Is Raho My Husband Name Is Hassan I Wane Know Is He Love Me Really?

My name is raho my husband name is hassan i wane know is he love me really?

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    Have you been married only a short while?  Was your marriage arranged for you?

    If it was, the good news is that God designed a regular sexual relationship at the heart of married life because it binds the two partners together emotionally.  If husband and wife work at the relationship together and are basically good and decent people, then love, adoration and a deep and trusting friendship can grow between them.

    Try not to worry about whether Hassan loves you, as this may hinder you from expressing your love for him.  Show your love for him, not only in affection and sex, but also in the way you care for his needs, have concern for his welfare and do what you can to help him.  I pray that you will grow into a deep and fulfilling relationship together.

    Just as a footnote to Hariku 821's answer, there was a Prime Minister in England during the nineteenth century called Benjamin Disraeli.  He married a wealthy widow, fourteen years older than himself.  She was not particularly beautiful and she lacked tact.  But she was very warmhearted and always waited up for him, with supper prepared, however late he returned home from the Houses of Parliament.  Everyone was convinced he had married her only for her money.  After they had been married a long time, one cheeky individual asked him straight out if he had married his wife for her money.  His answer was: "Yes, I did marry her for the money.  But if I had to make the choice again now, I would marry her again, - for love!"




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    Felicity_x  

    answered 2 years ago

      No he married you for the money. He loves his mistress. Not you.
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      Hariku821  

      answered 2 years ago

      This is a very cruel thing to say to someone who may be very insecure and anxious! What evidence do you have that Raho's husband is unfaithful to her at all? She has said nothing in her question to give that impression.
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      Felicity_x

      Felicity_x

      commented 2 years ago

      What has she said in his defense? What has she said to lead any one to believe otherwise?
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      Hariku821

      Hariku821

      commented 2 years ago

      She has not said anything to criticize him or imply that she thinks he may be "playing away". It is her own feelings she is talking about, not his actions. We cannot possibly have any idea whether her insecurity is rooted in her own emotions or his behaviour towards her unless she confides her reasons for feeling insecure. It could simply be that she is in the very early days of an arranged marriage and she hardly knew her husband before their wedding day. We basically have no idea at all what their circumstances are.
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      Felicity_x

      Felicity_x

      commented 2 years ago

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