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I Am 13, And I Feel Like Im Ugly And Fat But No One Else Seems To Agree With Me? Am I Weird?

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    You are not weird. It is normal for your age to feel insecure about yourself. You are on the adolescence stage. I, myself also felt that way. But you should overcome that. All of us are unique. We are created differently. Like what the other said if your fat it does NOT mean that you are  ugly. We are not perfect. Remember that. Feel good about yourself. Never walk around with your head down. Be proud of yourself that you are not a copycat like others. Never let anybody under estimate you

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    Shush 

    answered 8 months ago

      You must feel good about yourself before others will. A feeling of beauty comes from within. Also, "fat AND ugly" are not one in the same. Being "fat" does not mean your "ugly" and vice versa. It starts with how you
      feel about yourself and don't listen to others. People do this to others when they feel awful about themselves.
      Now go and love yourself.
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      Guest 

      answered 8 months ago

        Sweetheart. Been there done that. Trust me, my mom says when she looks back at the pictures of her as a teenager, and remembers telling herself she's ugly and fat, she always wishes she could go back to that. It's fine to think that, you're probably very beautiful.
        It's not weird. Just don't try to go anorexic or some stupid thing like that. You need to be confident, that is what truly makes somebody beautiful.
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        Tito09 

        answered 8 months ago

        No you are not weird but your dumb for thinking you are ugly. Look im in the same situation and i feel im fat sometimes but i know i should be proud of myself! And you should to! My dad always says if you think your ugly youll be ugly but if you feel pretty you will be pretty!
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        Hayway 

        answered 8 months ago

        I'm in the same situation. Now i know this is crappy advice, but its all I can think of:compare yourself to who you really want to be. I mean a normal person btw (not a movie star) and see how much"fatter"or "uglier" you think you are
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        Soccermonk 

        answered 8 months ago

          There must be an underlying reason why you feel the way you do, but you must love you first before you look for your friends to love you, and appreciate who you are.  Because if you do not you will always be feeling out of place for a long time and unaccepted and so you will do things to be accepted and feel appart of all those who you think are beautiful and slim.
          You are unique and there is not another one like you in the lorld you are special and wonderfully made love who you are.
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          Sherna 

          answered 8 months ago

          You are not weird. All teens go through that. I am sure you a pretty and skinny. Look in the mirror and just stare at your body you will realize you are a pretty girl/guy. It works trust me.
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          Schwent23 

          answered 8 months ago

          No I don't think you are weird but,if you try to loose weight and you loose to much you could die or you could get cancer.
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          Guest 

          answered 8 months ago

          Thanks now im going to die!! Becaue with all this stuff people have left me ive lost a ton of weight and now im too skinny for my age and i might die.
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          Dancinjeep

          commented 7 months ago

          Your not weird.. Your becoming a teenager.. Welcome to the world of heartbreak, periods, pimples, mood swings, attitudes and dumb boys... Dont forget about the stereotypes and the cliques.. Just ignore everyone who doesnt know you for you... Listen to the ones that matter and that care... You'll see... You will look at yourself in a different light.. Trust me.. Any questions? Add me
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          Pandaparks 

          answered 8 months ago

          Its normal that you feel this way. Being 16, I tell myself I'm ugly and fat all of the time. Truth is, you are your own worst critic. You see what you see because you see yourself everyday. And you can always find a flaw with you. What helped me, was I looked in the mirror and said, "wow, you look pretty today" I know its cheezzzy but it helps after a while. It's okay to talk to yourself too, just make sure know one is listening to you hahah.
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          Sd35 

          answered 8 months ago

            You are the most beautiful thing in the world nd i love you
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            Dancinjeep 

            answered 7 months ago

            No you are not fat or ugly if people say you arent then you arent nor are you weird hey i used to think the exact same thing no one ever agreed with me in fact i still think im fat and ugly. I am 15. And i am going through some rough times but i think it comes with the age just try to be happy and live your life to the fullest and if people say your not fat and your not ugly then it must be the truth. I hope this helped and your welcome to add me as a friend and talk to me anytime!
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            Desirae 

            answered 8 months ago

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