What Would Help Me Forget The Bad Memories?

I just broke up with someone that I thought I loved , but the truth is I loved his honey coated words and those are the things I can't forget about the most. I think that is what your stuck on i mean this only happened about 4 weeks ago or so and I'm getting over it quickly and how i did this is by being happy just to spite him cheating on me , it may sound bad but if you feel it is necessary to help you move on talk a whole bunch of shit about him or write it down to get it out , or with a close friend who will laugh with you. Also remember all the bad times you had  
with him. Time is gold sweety hope you feel better soon breakups are like a sickness-Andreana

Dear one,

Many of us have been there. It will take some time but it will get better eventually you will look back and be grateful for that relationship. What you can do right now is to not dwell on any memories that pop up in your mind. Avoid any music that reminds you of him, perhaps places that remind you of him and basically anything that reminds you of you two. Create a definitely distance from him by not contacting him in anyway. Do new things like pick up a new hobby or hang out with friends and have fun!! The more you do this the faster you will heal, eventually it will be just a memory but it wont have the same painful effect.

Blessings

Antonio

I know it's difficult, eventually I'm sure this whole thing will pass and your mind will let it go. But in the mean time you could take a look outward and if you're willing and are ready you could try to start talking with someone else and maybe "hook up" with someone new.