How Do I Get To Be With My Soulmate?
I have just recently met a very nice man and he new everything about me in a past life. He was my husband. And I am wondering on how can we be together without hurting our significant others. We my soulmate and I have a very strong connection and chemistry. So if anyone knows about these issues could you please help ? I have a feeling what my answer is is wait and see. Or we are wrong. But what do you do when you fine true love I mean true love. But thanks all just the same and much appreciated .
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Corky, it sounds as though you are already in a relationship and probably married maybe even with children. You met another man and he is probably sweeping you off your feet making you feel like a teenager again. He knows what you want to hear and that is what he is telling you. The grass is always greener on the other side and you have probably already tuned me out. You have made a commitment with someone and you should stand by your commitments.
He also sounds to be married so he has made a commitment. Do you really want to trust a man that is lying to his wife so that he can be with you and tell you the things you want to hear? Is he putting on a facade for you? How can you tell? You are bored in your relationship and looking elsewhere for fulfillment. You really should give your hubby a chance. Go to a marriage counselor and ask that both your hubby and the guy your seeing does the same. Work things out and stay true to your commitments and vows. They were not just words spoken but a promise made in front of God to your spouse.
He also sounds to be married so he has made a commitment. Do you really want to trust a man that is lying to his wife so that he can be with you and tell you the things you want to hear? Is he putting on a facade for you? How can you tell? You are bored in your relationship and looking elsewhere for fulfillment. You really should give your hubby a chance. Go to a marriage counselor and ask that both your hubby and the guy your seeing does the same. Work things out and stay true to your commitments and vows. They were not just words spoken but a promise made in front of God to your spouse.
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Oh I am not married and neither is he. And we are staying true to our partners nothing has happened in any other way . I am sorry that I gave you the wrong impression . That's why we can't be together is because we are with other people. So see I am trying to stay faithful. Besides right now I am in a relationship that is going no where . I say I love you and get a pat on the head but I have stayed true to him . But thank you for your honesty I really do appreciate it . Thanks again Corky
Wow, that changes everything. Guess I read moer into it than I should have. Sorry!
If you are in a relationship that is going nowhere and don't see a way to make it any better, then it is time to move on. That is part of what dating is all about. Your not going to live the rest of you life with this person knowing that you can't be happy. Of course, you don't want to hurt him as well but wouldn't it be more painful if he was to propose to you and you said no or he proposes and you say yes. Someone will end up miserable. Take your relationship and control where it goes. Don't make decisions on how others will feel as it only muddies the truth in what needs to happen. It sounds as though you have found your soulmate so you need to make yourself available for him.
There is the other side in that your not sure where he stands. Your soulmate, that is. I am guessing he is in the same type of relationship so he needs to do the same. Once you make the dive into marriage, that is when you have made the promise, vows and comittment. Best of luck but lead yourself where you know you should be.
If you are in a relationship that is going nowhere and don't see a way to make it any better, then it is time to move on. That is part of what dating is all about. Your not going to live the rest of you life with this person knowing that you can't be happy. Of course, you don't want to hurt him as well but wouldn't it be more painful if he was to propose to you and you said no or he proposes and you say yes. Someone will end up miserable. Take your relationship and control where it goes. Don't make decisions on how others will feel as it only muddies the truth in what needs to happen. It sounds as though you have found your soulmate so you need to make yourself available for him.
There is the other side in that your not sure where he stands. Your soulmate, that is. I am guessing he is in the same type of relationship so he needs to do the same. Once you make the dive into marriage, that is when you have made the promise, vows and comittment. Best of luck but lead yourself where you know you should be.
When the time is right you will meet your soulmate that is something i don't think anyone can give you a definite answer to because none of us can know who our soulmate is until bam one day you meet and you just know that they are the one you were meant to spend the rest of your life with
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If this question could be answered so easily, we would all have that special someone. Alas, the world has many more lonely hearts than satisfied loves. That is why there are so many dating sites, match makers and mixers there are a lot of soles looking but very few that truly find what it is they need. Remember that to have love and lost is better than to have never loved at all... Then again many have lost their lives over the wrong love? Be careful in what you wish for as you might just get it!
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