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I Like My Friend's Boyfriend? Should I Tell Him I Like Him?

I have liked this guy for absolutely ages now. About a week ago, my friend, who has only liked him for a couple of weeks, started going out with him. She wasn't aware of my crush on him but now I don't know what to do because they are both really good friends of mine and I don't want to break them up but each day I have to act like everything is fine when it's not. I guess I'm just asking if I should tell him I like him or just leave them be.

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    You have many choices like if you express yourself it is good for you but the guy can take advantage of that.   If you tell your friend she might misinterpret it. If you want to keep it a secret nobody will get awkward you alone will suffer.  I know you respect friendship so you can write a journal of your feelings it can help you if you choose to let your love remain a secret. Don't worry loving someone is making them happy. You can also focus your feelings on another things your crush loves on doing so that he can notice you if you really sure in your heart the love you feel and just be there. Love is patient and kind so just take it easy.
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    Ashleen143 

    answered 1 year ago

    I don't think you should tell either one, I have been there and it lost me a good friend and made the whole situation awkward and strange for all. If things don't work out with them, well then all is fair in love and you know...
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    Jsweetburn

    commented 1 year ago

      I'm currently in the same situation. They're both my best friends and I talk to them all the time (we all live in different states), even though its currently summer vacation. I'm hoping, however, that this summer will help me get over him. I advise you not to tell either one. It might make it awkward with your one friend (girl) and your other friend (guy) might avoid you. I can't exactly give you an answer because I'm still trying to figure it out myself. I wish you luck!
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      Guest 

      answered 5 months ago

        If that is your friend it would be wrong of you to tell him now that you like him. You said it yourself, you have liked him for ages, which means you have had ages to express to  him how you were feeling. You let the opportunity walk away, and now that your friend has taken thee initiative you cannot take this time to step in and speak your peace. You cannot try and take away their happiness because you were not vocal about what you really wanted.
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        Doubledip 

        answered 1 month ago

        I think you should wait until they break up. It will be the rite thing to do. If you two were to be together they will break up and you two will work up. But for rite now just lay low and wait and see.it's not always the boy you think is for you is for you.
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        Guest 

        answered 3 weeks ago

        I'm in the same situation. But, i decided to tell him. He won't get mad..and explain to your friend that you like him.
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        Guest 

        answered 5 months ago

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