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I Want To Break Up With Him But I Don't Know What To Say. Can You Help?

Yes. I know tell him how you fell blah blah but I don't know how.?

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    Call him over the phone. Start a conversation about something you know he isn't comfortable talking about. If he puts it off to the side with something like " why do we have to talk about this again, say, " look _______ (w.e his name is), some things are better off left unsaid, but somethings change your entire life if they aren't changed. This relationship isn't in my best interest and although I wish we could still be friends, the thought of seeing you would brake me inside. So I think its best we part ways and just forget about each other, or at least try. Sorry" then listen to his whining and say "yea I understand but this has to happen". Then say sorry one more time if necessary and say bye.
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    Heightz 

    answered 12 months ago

      Although face to face is the best way to break up with someone because its deffinate and understood this way, but if you can't seem to get it out of the way its probably a nervous factor.

      The best way for you to do it is probably with the least contact. Maybe you should write him a detailed note about how you feel and let him know its over or maybe you could call him and take the approach of the person hightz above me.

      If all fails then just break up with him non-verbally its harsh but it should work.

      Example:don't call him, don't meet him anywhere, when you see him walk pass him or in the opposite direction he's going, if he talks to u ignore him,basically don't interact with him at all, etc.

      Hope this helps ^_^
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      Watsonkid2 

      answered 12 months ago

      I disagree, i think the best way would be face to face because it is more understood, although it is true about the nervous factor...if you can't do it face to face, over the phone would be the best option, doing it over messages or emails and things is cowardly and rude
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      Missyblu

      Missyblu

      commented 12 months ago

        Tell him that you think you guys aren't wanting the same things out of life, so you think it is best to separate to go your own ways....
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        Missyblu 

        answered 12 months ago

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