Help Please..Is He Good For Me Or Let Him Go..?

If you love him and you think that he is worth it or the relationship is worth it then try and sit down and tell him how you feel and ask him why he acts that way. Most men like to go out with there mates and they don't like it when there g/f goes out because they are insecure or worried that you will find someone better than him. Not all men are romantic so they don't always think about valentines day, they don't know what to buy so they don't get anything. It doesn't mean that they don't love us. You need to establish whether your with him out of routine or because you love him and you need to know whether he loves you. Be strong and stick by your word, and try not to let the little things get to you. Try not to show him that things are getting to you, and perhaps tell him that if things don't change then the relationship can not go on, but only do this if your ready to stand by that statement if things do not change.

Above advice is very good, however in addition, I would like to remind you that abusive situations start with tickling, and advance into yelling, and then often to hitting. So beware of this person. Don't get yourself into something that you won't be able to get out of without help. You should take a look at this guy...I think you could do better.

He sounds very selfish. If he didn't get you anything for Valentines day and hasn't called you either it's obviously time for you to have a talk with him. You shouldn't be afraid to go out with your friends, especially if he's out with his. Whenever you're ready to talk to him let him know that you're tired of his mean and possessive behavior and that you will not put up with it. Give him the option to change if he wants to continue to be with you or to leave you alone. Behavior like calling you names and not wanting to let you go out with friends can become violent and dangerous, if I were you I'd be very careful. In my personal opinion he sounds selfish, mean and controlling. If I were you I'd leave him and find someone that will treat me better.

Honey you need to straighten your man out or find yourself a real man who knows how to treat a lady.  You deserve so much better than this. I know you love him and its hard to imagine yourself not being with him but there are so many guys out there waiting for you. He doesn't deserve you!
Verbal abuse is a form of shaming someone. We teach people how to treat us. So if u allow him to verbally abuse u, he will.  Don't allow that in your life..period.  Name callings are never ok!! This is clearly verbal abuse and you have the right not to put up with it and walk away from it. If you stay with him long enough, sometimes verbal abuse can escalate into physical abuse.  I bet he is like this in his every relationship. People like that passes it on when they become a parent too.then its harder to leave him and even if you do, you will be scarred for life. Does he make you feel worthless?   Does he apologize and then does it again?  Its a repeated cycle and they will never change.
However, i do believe that everyone deserves a second chance. So talk to him and let him know that you will not tolerate these kind of behavior anymore. Best of luck!