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How Come My Bf Can't Have Orgasms?

It Feels That I Failed Him.

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    Oh my goodness, don't listen to that guy moejoe.  Honey, it might not have anything to do with your vagina.  It could be a number of things.  Men have problems too, it isn't all women.  Heres some tips for both of you. As far as you go, you can do kegel exercises, they are exercises that make the vaginal wall stronger.  The best way to do this is when you urinate.  In midstream, stop peeing and hold it for a few seconds, then release, hold for a few, then release until there is no more urine to exspell.  You will notice a difference in the tightness in a few weeks. Also, during sex, as your man is inside you, squeeze your vagina and release. It is pleasurable for both you and him.  As far as your man goes, there could be a number of things wrong with him. First and for most, if your man is really stressed out, it could affect his sex life.  Second, if he is on any medication. Third, The status of the relationship between the two of you, meaning if you fight alot could have an effect.  Also, he could just have sexual problems and age is a factor also that absolutely have nothing to do with you.  Try not to be so harsh on yourself.  You seem like a person who gets alot of satisfication by giving.  I would try and talk with him and ask questions about his stress level.  Make sure your compasionate about the situation bc it is a ego thing for men.  If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, try going to an adult store and getting toys or movies or wearing sexy clothes.  Comunication is key, you have to talk.  Don't beat yourself up and think that you are sexually disfunctional. Good luck
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    Xxsassygrl 

    answered 1 year ago

      My first two time having sex I didn't climax the first time I was having a really bad cold and full of medicine I had a erection for over six hrs and I never did climax the second time it was guilt. Make sure he isn't on cold medicine  and that he is relaxed.
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      Sexless 

      answered 1 year ago

        Your puss puss is not good. YOU probably too loose. Do some vagina exercises to tighten back up. I'm serious! Google it and they will show u what to do. Good luck blow hole
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        Moejoe 

        answered 1 year ago

        Bad Puss Puss. Bad Bad Puss Puss! Down Puss Puss. Good Puss Puss.
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        commented 1 year ago

        My bf said that I am very tight ... But he tried to masturbate it did not work .
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        commented 1 year ago

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