I Feel Embarrassed Because Of My Outlook As I Am Bulky And Ugly. What To Do?

Being an individual, all of us have some bad things about us. Even if you someone pretty and beautiful, do you really think they have everything in their lives that they are happy and their life is perfect. Well if you think like this then you're wrong. None of us is perfect, when we were made; we were made in such a way that all of us do lack something. At times, a person has all the luxuries but he doesn't have any peace of mind, and at times people have no money but still they are happy. Someone is said because they are extremely beautiful but they can't find the true love of their life. So you see all of us have something missing in our lives.

Well apparently in your case, you think you're not beautiful. Beauty is just for the time being, as long as you're young. If you're not beautiful, then their most is something about you which is special, make that you're winning weapon. Looking beautiful in no big deal, all you have to do is wear nice clothes, if you're little fat, wear something that looks very elegant on you, and if you're slim then wear something which suits your personality, get a nice make over done. And consider yourself the world's most beautiful girl, then you'll see the magic. Don't do anything for others, do all this for yourself and then you'll see how beautiful you really are. Beauty comes from within, look for someone who considers you beautiful in anything you wear and no matter how you look.

Don't be embarrassed of what you are. Say thanks to God that He made you so nice and simple. Say thanks to Him that He did not leave even a single thing missing in you. Why you think that face beauty is important than your inner beauty as the charm of your inner beauty will give your real love from friends and family. Don't go for those who love you because you are beautiful but go for those who love for what you are.

You will be thinking to enhance the charm of your inner beauty. You may tell others by your work that how smart you are. If you will be an awesome helper in all regards then why they would go for your outlook and beauty? It is not bad to be ugly or bulky. It is media and internet which has put in our minds that a beautiful woman can be a good mother and an ugly one cannot. Don't we have minds to think over the matter? Think it yourself and do justice to yourself as well.

I'm sure your not ugly and Confidence is all it takes.

Treat yourself to some new clothes and walk with confidence seriously tell yourself your beautiful and stand with pride you'll see people will look at you different.

Well obviously you care what people think about you...Never care what the think cause that means your giving into them...don't ever let anyone or your self tell you that your ugly... I f you do that means you have no self confidence... trust me...I don't think I'm the honest thing!!!!! and you should just pamper your self and gain self confidence and you will not care what other people think and it will make you feel much better and you will improve on what ever you have to cause it will push you to that confidence.

I would like to ask you a question.  I can see where you would know if you were overweight or bulky, as you put it, but why do you think you are ugly?  Did someone tell you this or is this just your own opinion?  I will follow up after you answer. :)

You being an individual, all of us have some bad things about us. Even if you someone pretty and beautiful, do you really think they have everything in their lives that they are happy and their life is perfect. Well if you think like this then you're wrong. None of us is perfect, when we were made; we were made in such a way that all of us do lack something. At times, a person has all the luxuries but he doesn't have any peace of mind, and at times people have no money but still they are happy. Someone is said because they are extremely beautiful but they can't find the true love of their life. So you see all of us have something missing in our lives.

Well apparently in your case, you think you're not beautiful. Beauty is just for the time being, as long as you're young. If you're not beautiful, then their most is something about you which is special, make that you're winning weapon. Looking beautiful in no big deal, all you have to do is wear nice clothes, if you're little fat, wear something that looks very elegant on you, and if you're slim then wear something which suits your personality, get a nice make over done. And consider yourself the world's most beautiful girl, and then you'll see the magic. Don't do anything for others, do all this for yourself and then you'll see how beautiful you really are. Beauty comes from within, look for someone who considers you beautiful in anything you wear and no matter how you look.

Why the hell should anyone care what they look like. If other people don't like the way you look then don't talk to them. If that doesn't work tell them to shut the hell up and back off. No one can tell you who you are, but you!!!

Don't let them get to you!!