My Colleague Is In Love With His Wife's Sister, Even Though She Married. Is It Correct Or Not?

This is a difficult situation.

Being in love with his wife's sister means that there are four people involved here. Himself and his wife and his sister-in-law and her husband. All four of them stand to get very hurt if anything comes of this.
You don't say whether or not your friends sister in law knows about his feelings for her. If not she might be horrified to think he loves her. This might be infatuation, rather than love and your friend would be very foolish to do anything about it.
He's risking his own marriage, the relationship between two sisters and another marriage into the bargain.

People can't help falling in love but sometimes this situation shouldn't ever go any further and this is one of those times.

No it's not correct and potentially damaging to a whole family. Imagine how betrayed and hurt his wife would be if she found out. She might even loose the love of her sister and think she was betraying her too.
Situations such as this are usually never happily resolved if taken further and I'm sure that your colleague knows this in his heart.

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In the scenario that you are talking about, what happens to your colleague's wife? Is she to be conveniently sacrificed at the altar of illicit love? Because this is illicit love. There is the other problem, of whether your friend's sister-in-law is okay with this or not. As I see it, the whole thing has the makings of a modern day disaster. You have a friend who is married, and in love with his sister-in-law, who also incidentally happens to be married.

To answer your questions in a simple phrase - this is not correct. There are too many other elements involved who would be hurt by this whole scenario. The bottom line is such an affair would destroy not one but two families, and to many people's lives would be touched by this. No one can or should be so selfish as to be able to hurt so many people at one go for their individual happiness.

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