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If people could spank their children in a manner where it didn't hurt much more than a little sting and some feelings. But a lot of people do not know how to control their anger and their kids end up paying with bruises and even their lives.
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Well, I say it's sometimes necessary. If the child is growing dangerously aggressive, maybe hurting other children in school or picking fights, then the parents must attempt to control their child.
I say, therefore, parents should not be punished by the law if they spank their children, as long as it is within reason.
However, if their are signs that the parent is full-out BEATING their children, then by all means, the law should get involved.
There is also evidence that spanking can cause psychological problems.
But in all, I say parents should be allowed to spank their children if it becomes necessary. Of course, however, it is up to the parents how they discipline their children.
I say, therefore, parents should not be punished by the law if they spank their children, as long as it is within reason.
However, if their are signs that the parent is full-out BEATING their children, then by all means, the law should get involved.
There is also evidence that spanking can cause psychological problems.
But in all, I say parents should be allowed to spank their children if it becomes necessary. Of course, however, it is up to the parents how they discipline their children.
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I totally agree with you. If started at a early age by time they reach their teens they will respect your decisions and hopefully respect the parent. Time outs are fine for ages 2 to 8 but have you ever tried to put a 17 year old on time out.? And a swat on the butt shouldn't be considered a beating. When your two year old reaches for that hot stove or goes running into the street, yelling at them YOUR GOING ON TIME OUT isn't going to stop them from getting hurt.
I think that it depends on the individual.
Think the law says that parents can get punished if there is a mark left on the child once it has been hit.
Hitting can be very counterproductive and make the child aggressive. Parents should never hit to vent their own aggressions though, kids will pick up on this and become more violent.
Think the law says that parents can get punished if there is a mark left on the child once it has been hit.
Hitting can be very counterproductive and make the child aggressive. Parents should never hit to vent their own aggressions though, kids will pick up on this and become more violent.
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Spanking and beating are two very different things. Spanking consists of a firm swat on the "behind". Beating is hitting a child anywhere else on his/her body. I think spanking can get excessive, though, if a parent spanks their child for every little thing they do "wrong". Instead of "correcting" the issue, they go with a spanking. Discipline is "teaching and guiding". I think spanking should play a very small role in that definition. But it IS necessary in certain situations. (i.e. Back-talking and/or talking trash, refusal to comply, doing something dangerous or potentially dangerous, hurting or attempting to hurt someone/something, and things of this nature...)
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GUIDING is the main thing...if a child is guided well, they usually can find their own way if they were taught right and parents need to teach kids more respect these days,but if the parent has no respect for the child , then the child has no respect for them or anyone..we lead by example....Monkey see monkey do...my mom always said..lol
I totally agree! I know some parents who allow their children to walk all over them in front of people because they don't want to look like bad parents, then they go home and beat the children just for being children and doing what children do. I also know other families who have older kids and they are allowed to do anything and get away with it because the parents just don't care. Kids model themselves after what they know...Undisciplined parents = undisciplined children...
I heard a phrase once that goes like this: "You teach what you KNOW, but you duplicate what your ARE."
Spare the rod and spoil the child. This liberal, ignated hippi, bs society has created an environment where the child is equal with the adults. Children are not stupid. They can manipulate the system to get what they want. Sue their parents, report a spanking as a beating. So on it goes. Bottom line, if you don't have respect at an early age, your in for horrid teens. Even pre teens think nowadays that they are adults. Society and wimpy parents have created this tragedy.
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answered 11 months ago
Thanks for the low ratings. Whoever the 4 of you are, grow up.
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commented 10 months ago
A child needs to be punished for there wrong doing
whip them with your hands IT DONT HURT THAT BAD
ive been spanked my whole life
whip them with your hands IT DONT HURT THAT BAD
ive been spanked my whole life
Probably the same type of fool that downrated me. It's no big deal though, why cry about it? It's not like the points can buy you lunch...
It depends the severity. Spankings never worked on me. Actually, I'd rather have had a spanking than restriction. A spanking only hurts a little while and i still get to go play! ;) a spanking is only an attention getter. Like when a kid is about to do something dangerous and isn't listening. Or when they've pushed the boundaries and timeouts and restrictions aren't working. But a spanking should never be severe enough to raise welts or worse. A handprint or red mark, no problem. If a parent is doing worse they need their own punishment. I'll be more than happy to give it to them...
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I guess i've made some enemies ;) lol!
I don't think you have :)
Think everybody is different and it does depend on every individual child/family.
I agree with what you say that restriction work better then spanking :)
Think everybody is different and it does depend on every individual child/family.
I agree with what you say that restriction work better then spanking :)
It just amuses me that on a question that is asking an opinion so therefore has no right or wrong answer people will give low rankings. I always give high marks on opinion type questions.
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