What's His Deal Or Am I Looking Too Into It?
Dating a guy about 3 weeks-been together at least 7 times. Text or talk every day. He works 2 jobs-lots of hours. Last few days he seems distant. Less texts, gets off phone quick, etc. Know he's tired and overworked so hope I'm just being paranoid?
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I'm sorry to break this to you but could be cheating if he is cold and gets off phone quick.It just happened to me and it was exactly like your situation find out he was cheating I'm still in grief hope its not could luck to you.
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See - I would think that too - but the only thing is that he truly has no time to be cheating really. He works 5 days from 10:30 at night through until 8:30 in the morning. Then on 5 other days he works another job from like either 9am till 3pm or from 5pm till 9pm, etc. When he is free (which is rare) - he has his 8 year old daughter at his house. On usually two of those nights is when I see him (after she's in bed of course). The last time we were together was Wednesday night. SO it really has only been a couple of days that he's been distant, so I'm hoping that's not it.
Then maybe its not that I hope not because it really hurts and I'm married so it's my husband that cheated on me he said I was distant and all I had was depression from having a very sick brother
It could be the tiredness! But surely during his work breaks etc he should to speak/txt u! Confront him about it. Tiredness can only account for so much. Good Luck x
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I definitely am going to ask him but don't want to do it through text or phone. I'd rather in person. He wouldn't call/text during his one job because it's an overnight shift. I think my problem is that I'm beginning to realize how much I like him and am being paranoid. At least I hope so!
Thats totally natural. Once u feel that way you do worry about things like that all the time. I really hope that is the case for you. =)
I wouldn't be very worried. He may just need a little space for a a bit. Things may have started off a little quick and he needs some alone time. If this continues for a while then I would ask him about it. If you two care for eachother you should be able to talk about anything. I hope it works out! Good luck!
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Love your answer because that's exactly what I was thinking. So I kind of decided to give that space (without telling him) and see how he reacts. No texts, calls, etc. From me - which will be hard because I obviously like him. We'll see I guess. Thank you!
You are probably looking into it to much as he is probably tired, besides where would he find time to cheat or have the energy to do so after working two jobs.
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You Might be, but there could be a few other reasons like.. Hes cheating, Likes another girl, wants to break up.. Or he thinks your doing something bad... Well Hope it helps.. Good Luck!
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