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How Does One Get Over An Ex Boyfriend?

My boyfriend left me after I had a miscarriage and is now seeing another girl.How do I deal with the loss of my baby and my boyfriend?How do I deal with these jealous feelings of his new relationship as I still love him dearly.

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    First of all ask yourself is he right for you, as a loving boyfriend would be there to help you through times like this and not leave you for another girl, but having said that you can`t help how you feel about him. Jealousy is a terrible thing which we can`t control and at times like these you probably are thinking about him all the time , thinking of the good times you had and the stupid arguments you had. How you deal with the situation going forward no one can tell you, people may advise you but at the end of the day it is up to you. There are 2 ways you can go on from here.

    1/ Try to avoid going to places where he goes and where you used to go together and in time, you will slowly but surely start feeling good about yourself and your jealousy will go away but this could take,weeks,months or even years depending on how long you have been with him and how much you love him.

    2/ Get yourself a new boyfriend and make sure that he knows about him and then he will wonder why he dumped you in the first place. I hope this helps you in some way as I am not an expert.
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    Ianowens77 

    answered 3 years ago

      You may need  counseling concerning the loss of a baby.  It is heartbreaking, but I believe there is a reason for everything, so maybe there is a reason why God didn't want you to have the baby.

      To get over your love is difficult, time will eventually heal your heart.  You should try to move on with your life, go out with friends and have a good time. (not where he would be).   You'll  probably find someone else in time. No one ever dies over a broken heart even though at that time we think we will.  You deserve better and he will regret it in the long run losing you.
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      81456 

      answered 3 years ago

        Until you meet someone new..that's all i can tell you it's not easy getting over someone especially if he impregnated you. But it's not fair that he left you after you had a miscarriage..that's cruel..neway time will heal..you just have to wait till u find a good person to be with n who'll treat you better..so just hold on..good luck
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        Heraxx 

        answered 2 years ago

        You just like umm hang with your friends they will help you they love you and will help you
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        Swimy2373 

        answered 2 months ago

        Find a new man!
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        Katiebunny 

        answered 1 week ago

             
             

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