What Challenge Or Obstacle Have You Overcome, That Makes You Happy?

In my every day life i meet with a lot of people n a lot of friend but when i meet with my real friend or a people  that help me in past then i become happy in our heart.

In 2nd case if i got my aim or my dreams become real than we feel happy in our life due to this our blood preesure becomes normal n we also fell good in our heart.

I learnt to strip my bed and remake it on one leg when i broke my ankle. Then i was very happy when i learnt to use the crutches.

I won't go with all of them but the biggest one was not dying when 2 aneurysms both the left and right major carotid (largest in the head) arteries in my head blew in 3 mins. And was presumed not to live. My brain surgeon and his team found a 3rd. One and couldn't clip it because of the mess in my head. I believe I stayed alive to protect my 2 children from a completely unfit father. The same one I mentioned in my road rage answer. I checked myself out of the hospital 5 wks. Too early (let's face it, I hate hospitals) so I could take care of my kids. He wasn't and I knew it. When I got home I didn't know their names but I made supper for them and they were so happy. Every time I have a brain stroke I spend all the time it takes to reroute the pathways in my brain and regain the use of whatever side has been damaged. I'm telling you this so you know that you can overcome (quite often) a problem for which there seems to be no solution. You must believe you can do it.  

I have been able to release anger and resentment of people who have hurt me. I realized that it wasn't the "people" that hurt me at the moment who kept these feelings stored inside of me but rather, my own destructive behavior of harboring these feelings long after the person was gone and the act of hurting me was over. I detach myself from the feelings of anger. I put myself in their shoes. Who is this person? What have they gone through? Why would they have possibly done what they have done? I try to imagine this person as a human not just someone evil. I seek to understand. Because if I understand why they did it, I can take the next step to accept it. Instead of fighting and wanting them to change, I accept things that can't be different because they have already happened. THe most difficult part of all...forgive and let go. I can either hate what's happened in the past and live with anger or I can accept it and move on. I try to see them as myself, or how similar they might be to me. Although I don't want to be vulnerable I open my heart because this closing off of my heart is what blocks me from happiness. Violence of the soirit is a terrible thing.

I have learned to surrender toxic feelings that cause blockages in my spirit. I have learned to love my enemy. This was a good test to see how good of a person I really am. But how good am I if I'm only loving to my family and friends? That is extremely easy. The better test was seeing if I could over come feelings of hatred and resentment and turn them into feelings of love. That was the true challenge.