Why Does My Gf Choose To Speak To Her Ex Rather Than Me?

I have heard of this happening in many relationships. I wouldn't jump to conclusions. Her ex is probably someone that was there for her in bad situations in the past, and she knows that he is good at consoling her. That does not mean that you can not be there for her though. The two of you have probably just not been together long enough to have gone through things like that before, so she is not comfortable enough to let you see that side of her. She may just be trying to put up a brave front for you because she doesn't think you like women that are "weak" and cry all the time. Just let her know that you are here for her, and she can come to you at any time. I would not feel threatened by the ex unless it becomes a more common occurance to find out she is talking to him, etc.

Probably she had loved him more than she loves you. She shared her sympathies with him rather than you. This could lead towards a bad ending.

There can be many reasons for her behavior. She might be too attached to her ex. Sometimes you get into a relationship but can not get too deep or too open due to a number of reasons. That doesnt mean that you are not capable of consoling her. She probably needs more time to spend with you. You need to understand that before coming to any conclusions. Make sure that she knows you are always there for her, try to cheer her up.

Well i dont kno how long you to have been together but she may talk to him cuz her family new him more and usualy a girl likes to talk to a friend that may be all she needs right now