I Wana Know About First Time Sex?

This answer depends on your gender. I'll say this from a female 19 year old's (at the time) point of view, but I want to give you useful and real advice here!

You and your partner HAVE to be emotionally and psychically ready for sex! First time sex may be a beautiful thing, if and only if, you are ready! Talk it out, and when the moment comes, it'll be much more pleasant and comfortable.

My first time, I won't lie, HURT LIKE HELL! My arms and hands went numb, and I felt like I was being torn apart. Remember, you are nervous, excited, curious and even a little tense; so your muscles get tense, therefore it does hurt. Having proper lubrication will make it more comfortable for both.

Communication makes a huge difference too. My parter was experienced, conscious of the fact that it was my first time, and that made a great difference. He was delicate and asked ME how I felt during the whole thing. Be aware of the other person's feelings at the moment. Sex is not a mere psychical act, it involves both your feelings!

When you select your first partner, do it wisely! You will only have a first time, no re-makes! Make it special, with not just anyone for the heck of it. You don't want to remember your first time and cringe at the fact of who it was with.

Enjoy the moment, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF THRU PROTECTION, and don't do it out of mere curiosity. A bad first sexual encounter can be greatly traumatic, and it can lead to future relationship and personal struggles.

Wish you the best!