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How Do You Know If You Love Someone, When They Say It And You Cannot Say It Back?

I have known this guy for a while, and now we are dating. I have recently been hurt, and the thought of getting hurt again scares me. I care about him so much, and I want to be with him. He wants to take it to another level and it scares me. He said I love you, and I said I thought we were taking it slow. Are you sure you love me. Needless to say I love you turned into a bad line. I analyzed every word. What do I need to do to get to that?

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    First,you should listen to your gut, your instinct. Second, does it feel natural? Listen to what your body is telling you and relax. If he really loves you, he will help you get through your hurt. Likewise, you need to learn to start letting go of the hurt someone else did to you. This new guy is not the same guy. It needs time, patience and understanding.
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    Toybull2 

    answered 3 years ago

      Sweet heart in this life there is no easy way, I think that if the feeling is mutual for this guy you need to stop tripping and give him a chance like you did or even more than you did with the other guy. Hay what can you loose you've already been hurt, why don't you try being healed.
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      Shleya-luv 

      answered 3 years ago

        See most of the time if u cannot say it, then u don't love them
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        Peaches4u 

        answered 2 years ago

        I agree with the one who says
        Hay what can you loose you've already been hurt, why don't you try being healed.

        ;)
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        answered 9 months ago

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