Would It Be A Bad Thing If I Messaged My Ex Boyfriend, And Told Him How I Felt About Him And That I Loved Him, And How Much He Means To Me Even Though He Kind Of Just Changes The Subject? What Should I Do?
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Love is something which is in most of the cases very hard to forget. If you love your ex boyfriend and somehow you split, it doest mean that you stop loving each other. There are different factors in life which force us to part ways with those whom we love most because sometimes other external factors become so strong that they force us to get separated from our loved ones.
It is not wrong or bad as you say in writing or messaging to your ex boyfriend because it shows your honesty and passion for a man who have left you. But it must not be forget that messaging a person who probably hate you now may create further problems for someone because it sometimes create more hatred and feelings in that person's mind that you are still chasing him knowing the fact that he has left you or found someone else who probably carry more significance in his life than you so be careful in that fact. Before messaging be sure that what are his feeling about you now. Did he forgot you completely? Is he married now? If these are some of the facts than sending messages repeatedly to the person may impact his personal life so one should avoid sending too many messages.
answered 2 years ago
If he changes the subject then he's not keen to take your messages seriously and doesn't seem to want to take this any further.
I wouldn't bother sending him any messages as he's obviously not wanting to talk about it and you'll only get hurt eventually if he doesn't respond the way you want him too.
If you send messages saying how much you love him and he ignores them you might regret pouring out your heart to him.
Try to be brave and not hurt yourself. You can always let him know that you still care for him and would be pleased if he decided to contact you again but don't get your hopes up as he might just not be interested now.
answered 2 years ago
There is nothing truly wrong with doing that because you are being true to your feelings. An if he is changing the subject a lot most likely you are making him nervous. He may or even may not still have feelings for you. If you seriously want to know about his feelings then just ask him.
answered 2 years ago
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