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I Really Don't Want To Be With My Boyfriend But Everyday I Feel Even Crazier Without Him. What Do I Do?
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It sounds like you have two questions to answer. Does your boyfriend want to get back with you? Is getting back with him the right thing for you? The answer to both of these questions has to be yes in order for you to get back together with him.
It sounds like the answer to the second question is no. Getting back together with him might not be the right thing for you. Therefore, you need to give yourself time. Especially in the early stages after breaking up, things can be hard. Be patient with yourself and try to get involved in some enjoyable activities in order to focus on something positive.
Before you make any moves, give yourself time to think. If you are considering getting back together with your ex, think about what made you break up in the first place. Is the problem resolved? Can it be resolved? Try to allow yourself the space that you need in order to understand what you should do about the relationship.
answered 2 years ago
If you don't really want to be with your boyfriend why are you missing him so much?
It could be that you just feel that you want a boyfriend around. Also you say that he broke up with you to be with another girl so you're probably hurt by what he did. It's up to you whether or not you take him back after what he did. Perhaps he's not really the boy for you ?
Why don't you concentrate on something else other than wanting a boyfriend?
You could put a lot more effort into making other interests for yourself and having friends of both sexes.
There are a lot of other great things to do at your age rather than worrying about boyfriends.
You might be feeling lost without him only because he left you and you want to prove that you can have him back?
It's up to you whether you have him back but he sounds like the sort of boy who might go off again with another girl. Once you've got him back perhaps you'll get fed up with him?
Why not just be friends for a while?
answered 2 years ago
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Well yes he wants to get back together with me. And he broke up with me for another girl!! So now what do you have to say?
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