I Often Hold My Urine And I Have Three Small Red Bumps Near My Vaginal Area, Is It Herpes?

It sounds more like a yeast infection brewing up. If you start to itch a lot, that will be one of the first signs. With herpes pain to that area is likely.

The two don't affect each other, the 3 red bumps are from another reason, it matters if it hurts and has a head on them, that's what herpes look like, and hurt a lot, I worked for a OBGYN and some women need meds for pain, and complain that it hurts even to pee, your glands between your legs will swell, and hurt.  If the bumps have been there a while, I'd have a woman's doc check it out. The holding your urine for long period's is a whole different matter, if you read up on that, you'd think twice about doing it.