My Boyfriend Sends Me Mixed Signals. One Day He's Wonderful, The Next He's Cruel. What Should I Do?

Has your boyriend always been like this, or is it something new? if it's new, maybe the first thing is to find out if sometihng is wrong; if he is under some special stress or has a problem. This doesn't excuse his behaviour, but it might help you to understand it. In any case, to tell him, quite calmly and trying not to get upset, how his behavour looks to you, might be helpful. He may be able to explain it, or be willing to do things differently.

However, if he goes on being strange in his behaviour, you may have to think very carefully about the relationship. Women often waste a lot of time staying with men who treat them badly, because they think love will "cure" the man; sadly, often they are better off looking for a man who will treat them better (of course, men also sometimes stay with women who treat them badly - in which case, the same thing applies.) I would like to give you one tip: if he ever hits you, even if it seems like a small thing, then it's time to go. It just about always gets worse.

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You should tell him your feelings or you can tell him to stop or you can dump him.

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Is he taking drugs, they can give you mood swings. I am sure if you asked him he would deny it, but lookout for tell-tale signs. Write down the next several times it happens in a diary and see if there is a pattern. Is it the day after he has been paid, he could be on a high as he has money to buy drugs but the following day he is on a downer. Maybe best to keep the diary going for several weeks to get a clear pattern if there are definitely no drugs involved. Write down where you are, who you with and time of day/night etc. A pattern will soon emerge and you will be able to work it out for yourself.

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You should dump him and wait till you think your ready to get back together.

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