Do I Tell His Wife?

I met a coworker who always said he was unhappy in his marriage. 6 months later he separated from his wife (moved out, etc.) We started a relationship soon after. He told me that he wanted to keep our relationship quiet until the divorce went through. That was almost 8 months ago and I just found out by accident that he has been seeing both of us this whole time. Do I let her know what was going on or just move on quietly? He has threatened to ruin my life if I tell his wife now that I know.

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Joann2008

asked 2 years ago

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This guy is BAD NEWS. You can't "punish" him by telling his wife. That's her responsibility / problem. Don't give this guy another minute of your time, and / or a reason to get mad at you. Dump the loser, and if he does try to start things up again....Don't. Say something like "you've threatened to ruin my life, and that's unforgivable, period, good bye."

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Blindman

answered 2 years ago

Well girl lemme tell ya first of all if he threatens u like that u don't need to be with him anyway , do what u feel is right ...but it does depend are u willing to fight ? Because normally in a situation like this emotions get stirred up and things might get outta hand so if ur ready for sum drama go ahead and tell her , but if u wanna get out of it quietly ans calmly ...get out of that shiot and quick ..its a mess u don't need