Is Love Is A Collection Of Memories?

Memories can be any number of things, unfortunately, some memories are bad for some people, and some are good, and in some cases, memories are lost forever.

In a memory, there are childhood things that you remember, and many of the memories are indeed love. I remember when I was little, about 12, I gave my mother a hug during the day, and that night she died.

I have never forgotten that hug, it was a hug filled with love, and that is a memory. That is my memory, she loved me.

Every incident you have of your loved one creates a memory. Hopefully most of them are constructive memories. Every memory comes emotionally involved to the feeling you felt when you had that practice. That what love is. I use the term 'collection' when I am talking about memories, because each memory is a tactful item you can recall one at a time. Each memory comes with an emotion, some with good feelings, some not so good. The sum total of all the good and bad feelings connected to your partner becomes your "collection" of love.

I call the collection of feelings a collection because the feelings get all mixed up together and become one big bundle of feelings, even despite the fact that the memories can be recalled one at a time. The feelings are not as tactful as the memories. That is, they become all mixed together. One big bundle that is what love is. It is essential to recognize that the love you feel for your partner is a giant glob of feelings, some good and some not so good. All of the feelings were created by the experiences of, about, and with your partner.