Home RelationshipsFamily Subscribe to RSS

Do You Think This Is A Good Idea?

With all the child predators and crazy people out there do you think its a good idea to put pictures of our children on the internet like my space? I'd be afraid to do it you don't know how someone might use the pictures even your own pictures.

Answer Question

22 Answers - Sort by: Date | Rating

    No. When my daughter gets older, she will only be on the internet with adult supervision. I don't want to take my chances.  I would do anything to protect my daughter.
    9 1

    Jessi4ever 

    answered 1 year ago

    You are a very smart mother I agree totally.
    Report
    Tigerheart

    Tigerheart

    commented 1 year ago

      I have had one of my children molested by a adult....let me tell you from a mother who went through something you would never dream...that it would happen to you...well let me tell you..IT DOES!  So don't ever risk the safety of one of your children and keep your family photos where they belong at home not on the Internet!  *he was married had children,had two sons,went to the Lutheran Church and a boy scout leader and he molested several boys in our home town (Wes Fern)*
      8 1

      Djoyful 

      answered 1 year ago

      I am so very sorry your precious child went through something so awful, esp. By a church going man who should've been trustworthy. God will take care of that man, don't worry.
      Report
      Blondiemom

      Blondiemom

      commented 1 year ago

        It depends on the picture and the website. On Blurtit, you won't even see my wife unless behind a face mask. On MySpace, it's friends only and even then the kids are in a barangay in the Philippines where strangers get kidnapped by the New People's Army or beheaded by the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. So I dare any perve to try that route. Here's my stepdaughter and godson as an example.

        If the picture is non-sexual, and the actual address or interior/exterior of your house is invisible, then a child's picture may be appropriate. Make sure guardians or family elders vet the pics first, though.

        8 2
        Guest

        Guest 

        answered 1 year ago

        I just think there are so many people out there that would use yours or your children's pictures in a nasty manner I would hate to think of some nut job doing something nasty while looking a mine or my children's picture. But i respect your opinion.
        Report
        Tigerheart

        Tigerheart

        commented 1 year ago

        IMHO, we should be more concerned with our children surfing the net by themselves. Perves are predatory, and lurk in chatrooms. The danger with social networking sites for children is that they are easy bait for the malicious. When it comes to posting pics of our families, that's one thing, but when our children want to socially network in virtual spaces, we should not allow that.
        Report
        Guest

        Guest

        commented 1 year ago

        No its not a good idea that is why all of my pages are private and you have to be my friend to see my pics and the school puts the names in alphabetical order instead of the order we stand in on the website
        7 1

        Rwlover91 

        answered 1 year ago

        That"s a good idea
        Report
        Tigerheart

        Tigerheart

        commented 1 year ago

        Thanks my avatar is even not of me its of a peacock feather, ironic because of my last name, the only pic on any of my sites visible to everyone is my facebook so ppl know it's me
        Report
        Rwlover91

        Rwlover91

        commented 1 year ago

        Their is no way, I would post my grand-daughters on any site. ( sorry not even here) even though i would love too. Very bad idea parents.
        Report
        Walteria

        Walteria

        commented 1 year ago

        No way you can't even trust those that are there to help you No WAY.
        7 1

        Bgirl525 

        answered 1 year ago

          I don't think it's a good idea at all, esp since here and there we tend to reveal where we live, or the kind of neighborhoods we live in -- too much info to attach to a picture nowadays.  I would love to show you pictures of my grandchildren, but for their safety, I would never put them where the public could view them.  All of our family have Myspace accounts, to keep in touch, send pictures, etc -- but all our sites are private for friends and family only.  As for putting my picture here, or seeing adult's (facial) pictures online -- I've received way too many emails from people who select and send random (online) people's pictures with cartoon or sarcastic remarks in text under the pictures.
          7 1

          Moebkr 

          answered 1 year ago

          I would never post a child's pic or my own it is to dangerous.
          7 1

          Ryanna 

          answered 1 year ago

          Couldn't have said it better myself.
          Report
          Ixhxwolf09

          Ixhxwolf09

          commented 1 year ago

          Every school year, I have to sign a release for the school to put my kids' pictures on the web, and I do not sign it.  But I found out if I do not sign the form, the school cannot put my kid's picture in the yearbook!  I do not know what one has to do with the other.  I always have to write a note that gives permission for the yearbook to publish their pics in it.  But I agree, I know predators peruse the Internet looking for kids to possibly hurt.  I have a registered child rapist NEXT DOOR ( I see him often) and another one across the street and down 2 blocks, plus a lot more on the side streets around our neighborhood.  It is really hard to let the kids go outside by themselves, and I also have to monitor them at the bus stop,
          7 1

          Blondiemom 

          answered 1 year ago

          Next door? Geese, that would scare the crap out of me!
          Report
          Ixhxwolf09

          Ixhxwolf09

          commented 1 year ago

          I would never, never, ever, ever, put my child's picture on the net. Let alone mine. Or anyone else I know. Too much of a risk.
          6 1

          Tiggersmom 

          answered 1 year ago

          While i know where you are coming from, i believe that it is better not to restrict the kids too much. Sharing photos as well as dialogue, is the attraction and i think if we maintain an open and trusting relationship over this it will be better all round. These perverts will always find a way to practise their craft, and i think a child will be less likely to be taken in if they can openly relate to their parents. Its an issue of trust and education by the parents. :)
          7 2

          Padraig 

          answered 1 year ago

            I think that this Idea is really very bad, because children can never be us. I am just a girl but still I can say it confidently because risk taking in this case could be serious, there are a lot of computer hackers so please avoid it
            6 1

            Farwa 

            answered 1 year ago

            I could answer the same way everyone else answered but instead i would ask a question-how do you know you are seeing who you are looking at and talking to who you see in the pictures or if they even exist? I think the only way you would have to really worry is if the person putting the information on the screen/net/web/myspace put their personal information on the internet or if the person on the other end could possibly find out by hacking the site to get their real information....or if the children we're able to make real world contact...then i would worry.....so your right about the preditors but it would be very hard for them to make real world contact without any real world personal info....but some people are still what's the word naive and give out info that can help a nut find them without even really thinking about it.....sometimes it amazes me how much info is on the internet that should not be......anyway that's my two cents later
            5 0

            Nomad1 

            answered 1 year ago

            Very great answer nomad1
            Report
            Walteria

            Walteria

            commented 1 year ago

            I think it is a very bad idea to put pictures of our children on the Internet even of ourselves.  I don't believe anyone can ever be too careful these days.  I never put pics online unless I really know some one then I email them but I don't post them online.  I think it is a good idea to use cartoon aviaters etc.  Like we do here at blurt it.  Predators are all over the Internet these days.  It is a scarey world we live in.
            5 1

            Lisamarie1 

            answered 1 year ago

            I totally agree I have three children and it is a very scary thing trying to keep them safe from harm or yourself for that matter posting your picture I believe just opens you up to extra danger and we already have enough to worry about.
            Report
            Tigerheart

            Tigerheart

            commented 1 year ago

            So, you are saying that the avatar you are using is not your actual picture? DARN!!
            Report
            Debossman

            Debossman

            commented 1 year ago

            Me and both of my children have a myspace and we have lots and lots of pics on there. I'm curious how exactly someone is going to hurt you child by the pics? Use the pics for what? I'm am far from naive but I think it is a bit ridiculous and even a little paranoid. My homepage for here is my myspace. We have a blast with it sharing pics with our family across the country. Have had mine for 3 years, My son for 2 and my daughter got hers last year. No one can even see her page unless they are friends with her and you can't be friends with her unless you know her email or last name. So, it would be pretty hard.
            7 3

            Clbraz78 

            answered 1 year ago

            HECK NO< NO WAY< NO HOW
            5 1

            Debossman 

            answered 1 year ago

              No, I don't think it's a good idea at all. I don't have kids of my own but it scares me to think of all the crazy people out there that prey on the innocent and naive children in the world. So keep your babies safe and sound!
              5 1

              Cfrank 

              answered 1 year ago

              A child's picture should NEVER be posted on any program open to the internet. Hackers are always busy sticking their nose into other people's business to see if there is anything they can use to profit from..... With or without anyone's permission.
              5 1

              Tiasmeow 

              answered 1 year ago

              It's not a good idea for kids to put their pictures on the Internet. However, I have and not it's out there. Sometimes I wish I had not done this.
              5 2

              Peace 

              answered 1 year ago

              Any public space you have the option of making it private. That's a good idea.
              4 1

              Trallen 

              answered 1 year ago

              Well I am a kid 11 going on 12 and I just got a myspace but my mom doesn't know so I think that I might put a picture of me on there because I wont put someone else at risk!
              6 4

              Mcdonalds6 

              answered 1 year ago

              I think its o.k to have your my space but I would maybe just put a picture of something else not someone else so you stay safe and so no one can use our photos for something bad,
              Report
              Tigerheart

              Tigerheart

              commented 1 year ago

                Please do not do that. Because people like me will put them in their profiles in this site loll. I was just kidding. Do not do that my friend
                3 1

                Skyadamani 

                answered 1 year ago

                I don't have kids but I wouldn't do it.
                2 0

                Redbike 

                answered 1 year ago

                More

                More

                   
                   

                  Ask a Question via Twitter

                  Send a question to @askblurtit and we will publish it online and send you a reply everytime you receive an answer.

                  Blurtit Store

                  Get T-shirts, hoodies, caps and more at the Blurtit store

                  Blurtit International