Why Must We Suffer So Badly, Losing A Son To A Murderer? Why Does God Let Us Go Through It?

No one has been able to understand life so far. Life is full of surprises and things we cannot even imagine. Some times it gives us joy and some times it disappoints us. Death and suffering are the bitter realities of life, no one has been able to over come these.
Losing someone very close is the worst feeling of all, the pain and the suffering a person goes cannot be explained in words.
When a father sees the dead body of his son, his feelings can only be understood by a person who has gone through such an experience himself. A father`s dreams are shattered, he had so many expectations. Lifting a dead son`s body is the biggest load in the world.
God never gives us troubles / problems we cannot handle, but sometimes we commit such grave deeds that God lets us go through the pain. We all have to die some day, but dyeing before time, is the biggest suffering for the loved ones.
These things can only be understood by people who themselves have been through the same experiences.

It is better to hug a person in such an occasion offering condolences for suffered parents for having lost their son. No one really knows what happens in the next second. No one can change destiny because it is in God's hands. We must be faithful and pray for his resting soul.


I had a similar experience when I lost my only brother when I was a teenager. It was the worst time for a little girl to understand why her beloved brother passed away but as you see, we all have to live with it.

After the bad times, are the good times. So, just have faith and give it some time. You will see that in the long run, God will always be there, no matter what happens…Believe me!

I am truly sorry that you or someone you know had to suffer from such a devastating loss.
Anyone can say, God had a plan for you, or that God takes those He loves best earliest, but all the same, such trauma can be extremely difficult to overcome.
No one to date can truthfully say, with any feeling, that everything that happens, happens for the good, when someone has had to suffer such a loss...
Losing a child can be one of the worst sort of torture life has to offer a parent, and it is often said that no parent would be able to completely recover from such a loss.
In fact, a parent would gladly give up his own life, if he could, to save his child.
No one knows why there are murderers and other such types living in our midst, and no one knows when they will strike, to upset the precarious balance of our lives.
The one thing that you could do is to help others who have suffered through similar trauma, and this will lessen your burden to a certain extent.
What do you think?

How can you ask that question on this site and not leave an answer? I feel sorry for your loss, but I think that you should think about the people that you were crying out to. They deserve a response to your question. Just as your son deserves a response to your loss. How selfish!