Will My Relationship Last With My Boyfriend Of More Than A Year? [im 14]
I've been with him for 1year 1 month and 1 day. When he broke up with me because he was starting to like another girl. But then that girl was starting to have issues i guess and didnt like him anymore, he came back to me saying sorry. We didnt get back together til after a month. And now we're going to dif. Highschools. Do you think will we last?
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I know you want to hear "yes, this will last forever!" but that usually only happens in fairy tales or bad films. Since your bf has already shown interest in someone else, chances are that he will continue to "like other girls." You didn't say his age but if you are both in high school, he is prolly too young to commit to you. You are definitely too young to commit to him, but it's looks like you've gone and done it, so that's yesterday's news. Today, reflect on life without him. What would you do? Who might you find attractive? Dating is a time for getting to know different people, seeing who fits and who doesn't, discovering the qualities in a guy you like most. You can't do that when you are tied down. Statistically, your chances of making this relationship work are very small, although sometimes this does work out. In your case, though, I'm sorry to say that it already sounds as if the two of you aren't even together. Get yourself out there and hang out with friends. You will meet the right one at the right time. Remember, though, almost nothing is permanent; even indelible ink fades eventually. When you are old enough to make a commitment to a real relationship, you will know. Right now, you are torturing yourself with 'what-ifs' and that is so not good. I'm sorry! ~ Pasha
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Well first off, thank you for your answer. He is exactly my age. Yeah i guess we are young, but .. See i took him back, because truthfully, i knew he would do it in the first place and we really do love each other dearly, we've been through so much, even if we're young. [it's just so many people have been telling me the same things. Is that a good or a bad thing?] At first i thought i was overreacting, maybe i am but gosh. Im still lost, though i respect your answer. Thanks.
I am 14 as well. My ex had broken up with me year ago. I didn't know why but recently found out he was cheating on me with two different girls. He now claims he "misses' me etc. I love him and i would die for him, but i won't go back to him for one reason....if he's liking other girls then he's gonna cheat on you. It's best to let him go, it's not gonna last. And after i let him go i met someone even better. Hope this helps/
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