Can You Help Me? Something About Sex.

Did you ever see the show that was on NBC, it's called Dateline NBC. They did a series about men that talked to kids online about getting together and having a one on one party and sex. These men were married, had children of their own, and only wanted to have sex with kids because they are perverts.

These men that did this were arrested and put in jail, and charged with different things that related to sexual abuse of a minor, and other charges that have landed this person in jail for a long time.

It is not something that you want to think about doing, because the odds are that he is not your age, and there is a chance that he would rape you.

Or worse, he would leave you with aids, or herpes or even clamidia. I don't think that you really love this guy, and I don't think that you should try to meet up with him. You could even end up date!

Honey.
Personally i dont believe anything i meet or saw on the web, and im not saying that you really dont know this guys but basically if he really is in love with you he will wait.. WHATS THE RUSH.. im sure you do love him women love very easily. Men on the other hand base their love by how good a girl is in bed.. dont take it from me i have four older brothers who coach me on the real deals with men.. honestly dont commit to something so serious and dont make him feel like you want to do it if your unsure. thats creating false hope and you shouldnt do that to anyone..  You need to be asking him what his intensions are and tell him of your fear and be as honest as possible.. IF ITS MEANT TO BE THAT MAN WILL STOP AT NOTHING TO BE WITH YOU AND I DONT MEAN SEXUALY EITHER.. if your a vrigin boo save it.. dont get rid of it. Its wayyy too special girl.. You need to be with someone thats not going to rush you i dont care how great he put its into words..

This guy is just saying whatever he can to have sex with you. He's trolling the internet looking for victims. Don't be one.

Have you ever met him? Because if not he is probably a pervert so don't have sex.  If you have met him that's different...

Since you stated that you are both in love with each other then I don't see sex as being the more important item to worry about.  If he loves you, he will put sex second on the list.  

I feel that you have some doubts regarding having sex with this person.  Always go with your gut instinct.  I have followed this "gut instinct" feeling of mine most of my life and found that the feeling is never wrong.  If it feels wrong, it is.

There is a great difference between making love and sex.  When two people make love they are elevated to a higher plane of consciousness.  The first time someone made love to me I was shocked and ended up crying because I didn't know that this higher plane of consciousness even existed.  Since that time I have only had 2 more partners who knew how to "get there".  It's called intimacy to the highest degree.

Take your time.  Don't be rushed.  Men are extremely sexual and sexually motivated, especially in their younger years but reaching on into later years also.  They sometimes think with their penis (if I can say that here) and therefore the woman needs to be the one who says yes or no.  Women lead with love in their hearts; men lead with sex in their minds.  I'm speaking generally here.

Best of luck here.  You appear to be very intelligent or you wouldn't have questioned this problem.  Be righteous to yourself always and hold yourself with respect and honor.

Hmmm i dont think u should. If u love him and he loves u he will tell u that. And if u did already im so sry u lost ur virginity

Well depends on how nice the guy is.
And if he is nice then go ahead.
And give me the details after...
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