How Do I Change Kits On Fifa 09 For The Wii?

I have the same problem. Sorry to say I have no answer for it except that it may not be possible. It doesn't let you change things like stadium, ball, or weather in manager mode either, but clearly the kit is the most annoying part.

For what it's worth, the Wii seems to show some intelligence in making sure the two kits contrast, but in the 17 seasons I've played so far in manager mode, I have had about a handful of matches where it was nearly impossible to sort out who was on what team. Changing camera angles helps with this a little, but obviously takes away from actual gameplay.  Just as annoying is the fact that you save up points and buy third kits only to not be able to use them in manager mode. Horrible flaw in the game.

When you are playing a real game chose your team and then press a now a screen will come up asking you to select sides. Press 1 and then press select kits when you are done pres done and don again and then press a and start your game