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You See My Girlfriend Has Mental Illness, But I Love Her So Much, What Should I Do?

I love my girlfriend so much but she has a mental Illness and she can't make up her mind about me but I love her so much I don't know if I should stay with her or leave what should I do?

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    I say stay as it is apparent that you cannot make up your mind either....hence a match made in heaven?  No offense intended sweetie;okay?...♥Nassy
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    Nascarnut 

    answered 1 year ago

      It's funny how you said she got this mental illness she can't make up her mind about you and you mention you can't make up your mind about her either.lolz
      Well what can't she make up her mind about you? Whether for her to stay with you or leave you too? Don't hurt yourself, have a seat and talk with her.
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      Babymai 

      answered 1 year ago

      Good advise, and I agree with you.
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      Lovelyme

      Lovelyme

      commented 1 year ago

        Wow, you are a patient man if you want to keep her in your life, I know how old you are. Apparently she has left a relationship that was abusive! NOT just her man, but others, please take care of her.
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        Tiggersmom 

        answered 1 year ago

        I have bipolar disorder. That makes me flighty, full of mood swings (sometimes violent sometimes just irratic most often severley depressed), indecisive, and give my attention to things a real run for the money.

        I've been married to my husband now for 8 years, I couldn't tell you how many times I've nearly ruined our marriage (sometimes on pourpose). But he still loves me, hes still here. No matter what her illness might be, it will be a trial..each day will be starkly different from the last. You have to look inside yourself and make sure...really really sure that you can handle that type of relationship.

        I am the walking chaos that keeps him on his toes, he says he wouldn't have it any other way. (and yes we've tried meds...they are too expensive to me to stay on but work very well. You might want to talk to her about her illness, and if shes ready to get treatment).
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        Belle0019

        Belle0019

        commented 1 year ago

        If you really love her, then mental illness is not a problem that can be solved, by giving her attention and loving her
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        Skyadamani 

        answered 1 year ago

        In all honesty if you really love her and she holds a special place in your heart and would do anything for her the disorder has nothing to do with it. You hold her close to you no matter what the case or problem and if you do you not only love her but she loves you for letting you hold onto her even with her disorder. ~chris P.
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        Guest

        Guest 

        answered 8 months ago

          This mental girlfriend is me. I don't think i have a problem, but he does. He leaves me everyday to spend time with his friends while being addicted to this game Halo3. He pays no attention to me, he doesn't help with the house work and it is driving me crazy. I don't think he loves me but i am trying my hardest to stick with him. He says he loves me and then he says "i don't know if i want to be with you" and has been doing it 4 a while now. I started to drift away, and he got mad. Please help me.
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          Guest

          Guest 

          answered 6 months ago

             
             

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