What Is The Reason That Life Is So Unfair? Why Is It That At Times, We Don't Get Or Achieve What We Seriously Deserve?
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I think that it is all just a test of our character. I have certainly felt like you do and I constantly start to feel sorry for myself and think that life is unfair and other people get all the luck. However, then I realise that life is what you make of it. The only way to achieve something is to work hard at it until you do achieve it.
There will be all kinds of obstacles thrown in our way to stop us achieving what we want to do. However, if we achieve it anyway then that proves just how much we wanted it. These obstacles I believe are put in our way to test how much we want something. There is a saying that nothing worth it was ever achieved by giving up at the first hurdle. If you have to work for it then generally that means that it is worth it.
Life can be unfair but it is how you get through it that really matters. Don't give up on what you want to do. Stay determined and you will get there in the end!
answered 2 years ago
When we get a run of things going wrong we often feel this way.
When things are going wrong it seems that everyone else is having a smooth life and things are going their way.
I think if you look around you'll see that life is difficult for many people.
So much depends on individual circumstances and sometimes things seem to spiral out of our control and it all seems so unfair.
Life I'm afraid tends to be like that and many things happen which seem so unfair especially when you work so hard to try and get things right.
I think sometimes some people seem blessed with an ability to just get things right for no apparent reason as they work no harder than the rest of us.
Sometimes families have a series of events which seem to go on for ages and cause a lot of upset whilst others appear to have no real problems.
It's easy to say but good advice to stay positive and keep trying and hopefully something good will happen and you'll feel that you are getting the break you deserve.
answered 2 years ago
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