Is Sex In The First Meeting A Good Idea?

I really don't think this is a good idea at all.

Without bringing just moral principles into this there are a lot of other things to consider about having sex after a first date.

For a start you don't really know the other person at all if you've just met them. You will perhaps have known them for a couple of hours. It's irresponsible to have sex with someone you know nothing about even if you use contraceptives. You know nothing about their previous relationships and they know nothing about yours. Sexually transmitted diseases are a real health threat.

You know nothing about the interests and likes and life of the person after a first meeting and haven't had time to build friendship and trust. These are the basis of good relationships.

Some people are able to have sex and walk away but most people would feel perhaps regretful after this sort of encounter.

I believe that relationships have more value than this and that trust, friendship and respect are high on the list.

My own opinion is that no, generally this is not a good thing.

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Sex is a natural phenomenon and every creature of God Almighty goes through it in one shape or the other. No breathing creature can avoid going through sex if he, she or it is physically normal. So far your question is concerned that does sex in the first meeting is good, every person may be having different point of view in this regard according to his or hers environments, character and attitude.
Some people are mentally strong while others are not. One should keep his mental approach positive in every state and he should have total control over his feeling. Sex in the first meeting I don't think is a good action. It can degrade your personality and you may not be liked in the society or in the eyes of the opposite member with whom you have gone through sex. He or she will start realizing that you are not a man of character or you don't have moral values and over all your personality will have a very bad image. So in my opinion you should never go through sex in your first meeting. Try to make your good impression in the first meeting, introduce yourself in a nice manner, and highlight your good abilities. This will make a good an impression of your personality and later after 5 or 6 meetings the other partner may be ready for sex and you can go through it.

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No, no and NO! You need to get to know someone before you become sexual. If you have sex too soon you will never really see the other person clearly as you will be so infatuated that you will miss valuable clues about their character. Procede slowly with your relationship or you could end up with some really big regrets even heartbreak.

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