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Why Does My Boyfriend Get Jealous When My Guy Friends Speak To Me Or When A Guy Looks At Me?

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    Maybe your boyfriend sees something that you don't when your friends look at you. Guys are more observation than us, especially when it comes to someone that he cares about. But if he comes to protective or maybe harsh, seek help.
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    Guest 

    answered 8 months ago

      Because he thinks that you will be taken away by these, "guys friends" because you might feel closer to them then you do to him. Sometimes that can make him feel neglected or Useless.
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      Quietbowse 

      answered 8 months ago

        Because he cares about you a lot. Same thing happens with me and my boyfriend. Sometimes its too much but then again it feels nice to  know he cares. And hes just watching out for you. But if the jealousy gets too far, just talk to him about it. HOPE I HELPED!
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        Carley23 

        answered 8 months ago

        It is normal for your boyfriend to get jealous if you are talking to other guy, it means he loves you and he cares for you. Talk to him, make him feel better, make him feel that you are honest to him and you will never cheat on him.
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        Shush 

        answered 8 months ago

        R u serious about this question? The answer is because he laves you. You should be happy about it by the way because jealousy is great and if their he does not get jealous that means he doesn't love you.
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        Marmoura 

        answered 8 months ago

        It's loves you not laves you sorry about the spelling thing
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        Marmoura

        commented 8 months ago

          Sounds like he's a controller. I'd get out of the relationship if I were you.
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          Teagal 

          answered 8 months ago

          Your boyfriend acts this way, because he afraid that he is going to lose you.
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          Specialann 

          answered 8 months ago

          Its perfectly natural..it is a good sign that he gets jealous because it does show that he cares a lot and your his girl and know one Else's. But if it gets out of hand talk to him asap
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          Guest 

          answered 8 months ago

          He likes you alot.
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          Mpbchick1 

          answered 8 months ago

          He obviously really likes you and wants nothing to get in between the two of you. Consider yourself lucky.
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          Wise-kidd 

          answered 8 months ago

            Maybe hes insecure about the relationship
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            Msz_cutie 

            answered 7 months ago

            As a guy my self, it is because the way you ladies act different around this so called friend, It is the way you act or do thing different with the friend. Whats more important, ur friend, or the one you say you love? Think about it. Would you get jealous if his best-friend was a girl that was hot, and they acted different around you. I always say, Put the shoe on the other foot and see if it is the same
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            Natedogg 

            answered 6 months ago

            Maybe he feels jealous tell him how much you love him you cant stop talking to people just because your boyfriend gets jealous
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            Kanta1 

            answered 6 months ago

            That is a built in defensive mechanism. Guys know guys, and we know generally what the other is thinking. But, you should tell him, you know he's going to do it, but, let him know you trust him enough to stand with you if some guy, does or says something intentionally to make him mad, and be sure he knows you'll do the same.

            He may think you a bit gullible and feel he has to compensate for your defenses or lack thereof.

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            Mulcimber 

            answered 5 months ago

            I do it too , and it's horrible !!
            Just try to control and try talking to him first!! Tell him you love him and another men are just friends .. Make him understand in any way! I've had thousand problems because of that!
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            Guest 

            answered 5 months ago

              Cuz he's jealous!!!
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              Guest 

              answered 1 month ago

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