My Husband Having Illicit Relationship With His Waitress. What To Do?
My husband is having a illicit sexual relation with his waitress. He is denying. But I have the written proofs with me. I cannot go to CID because his name will get spoil and our relationship will be over as my son is attached to him. Treat this very urgent and genuine please.
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The question you have to ask yourself is if your husband is acting in a way that your son would see as a quality father. It sounds to me as if your husband cares more about his own needs instead of you or more importantly, your son. What is the quality of life at home when he is there (between you and he). What is going to happen long term and how long can you put up with him cheating on you. All of these things will effect your son. It may be better to part ways now, even though your son may not fully understand. The longer you wait, the harder it will be on everyone.
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Today I tried to burn myself in front of him. He did not come to help me.Can I show him the correspondence they both have exchanged to each other. But again I will not know what are his plans. My mind is not working at all. Can't live or die.
Is it advisable that I can go National Human Rights Committee or the embassy for help.
One thing you need to understand is that you can NOT control another person. You can only control yourself. By hurting yourself, I am assuming that you are testing the waters to see how he would respond. It is obvious that he has chosen an alternate path. You can try to show him that the spark is still there in your relationship and that he does not need to find whatever it is he is looking for outside of the relationship that already exists. Don't expect it but try to lead him on the right path. Don't do things like hurt yourself or other things as it will only give him more reason to go elsewhere and if it does come down to separation/divorce, he can use that against you to take your son. You need to find someone to talk to and reason through what actions you should take. A friend or family member who you can sit over a cup of coffee and be open about what is taking place along with ideas of ways to fix it.
Are you crazy!!!!!!??????
Acting like that will make everything for you worse. You are risking losing your son by attempting things like burning yourself. Listen, your husband is obviously a first class "A _ _ whole". It seems as though he has money. The first thing you need to do is stop trying to burn yourself and start burning his clothes! Also if he doesn't care about you and his son, why do you care about his name or reputation? Screw his name just as hard as he screws his waitress! I'm a first class man-eater... I don't let anyone walk over me and get away with it. Don't do anything foolish but don't just sit there and feel sorry about yourself either! If you are legally married to him filing for a divorce will get you some big time money from him. The court will order him to pay up and you'll be entitled to HALF of EVERYTHING he has!!!!! HAHAHA!! Empower yourself and start thinking about your future and your sons future. You can make him regret what he is doing by showing him that you are a warrior not a victim!
Acting like that will make everything for you worse. You are risking losing your son by attempting things like burning yourself. Listen, your husband is obviously a first class "A _ _ whole". It seems as though he has money. The first thing you need to do is stop trying to burn yourself and start burning his clothes! Also if he doesn't care about you and his son, why do you care about his name or reputation? Screw his name just as hard as he screws his waitress! I'm a first class man-eater... I don't let anyone walk over me and get away with it. Don't do anything foolish but don't just sit there and feel sorry about yourself either! If you are legally married to him filing for a divorce will get you some big time money from him. The court will order him to pay up and you'll be entitled to HALF of EVERYTHING he has!!!!! HAHAHA!! Empower yourself and start thinking about your future and your sons future. You can make him regret what he is doing by showing him that you are a warrior not a victim!
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Firstmost I want to thank Blurtit where I expressed my feelings which I can’t talk or share with anybody and especially to Celtics I want to thank for giving me courage to move forward. I am grateful to you
On 29th we will finish our 18 years of relationship . I cried a lot so much so that my tears are dried up. But now I need to stand up. This female for whom he is leaving his family is in her 30’s and he is now 53, has two separations (without marriage) and two kids. After five years she will be still young. He knows this but he is blind in her love. It is not love because the words used .. I want to squeeze your ….., suck…., feeling sexy…shows only lust. As a waitress the salary what she is getting is not enough to support her and to maintain her high standard. Obliviously to expose the body shop is the only alternative.
On 29th we will finish our 18 years of relationship . I cried a lot so much so that my tears are dried up. But now I need to stand up. This female for whom he is leaving his family is in her 30’s and he is now 53, has two separations (without marriage) and two kids. After five years she will be still young. He knows this but he is blind in her love. It is not love because the words used .. I want to squeeze your ….., suck…., feeling sexy…shows only lust. As a waitress the salary what she is getting is not enough to support her and to maintain her high standard. Obliviously to expose the body shop is the only alternative.
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