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Why Does My Boyfriend Not Give Me His Password To His Email Account?

Hi, i love my boyfriend i trust him too but when i asked him to give me password to his account he said no.he said there is no need to he said" the same way as i dont ask u for ur password, i don't know ur password, nor is it necessary for me to give it to u"

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    PBfan4 is exactly right. Everyone needs their space. You must feel there is something he is not sharing with you. That makes you jealous. A better thing for this is to talk to him about your feelings and why you feel the way you do. You need to make sure to let him know that you are trying to get control of your feelings so he does not get the wrong idea. Maybe it is what is in your emails that makes you think that he may be up to the same thing. I don't know what it is but something is causing you to be jealous and untrusting and that will lead to problems very quick unless you get them under control.
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    Fdjones  

    answered 2 years ago

      Why exactly do you need to know the password to his email account?  You might be extremely close but he still needs his space and his privacy.  There might by things in his email that he doesn't want you to see (not necessarily bad things).  Hypothetically speaking its like him asking you for your diary key.  He no more needs to read that than you need to read his emails.  You might be together but everyone needs their own space and privacy.
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      Pbfan4  

      answered 2 years ago

      i liked ur answer
      and all d below ones celtics girl
      fd jones all of dem and even urs pbfan4
      thanx som,uch
      u r rite
      he needs his space i uneccesairly got into this thing

      thanx so much
      God Bless You All
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      Smartgurl

      Smartgurl

      commented 2 years ago

        Hi! I know how you feel. The "unknown" can sometimes be scary. I gotta tell you why having his email password is a waist of time. Let's say he gives in to you and gives you his password, he can always have another email account that you're not aware of on the side if he chooses. Then apparently he's got nothing to hide right? But really he's just doing it in a much sneakier manner. So having his email password won't prevent him from doing anything online behind your back and won't help you in any way. Just feel him out, if you think he's doing something wrong talk about. If he doesn't acknowledge your feelings then you might be with the wrong man.
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        Celticsgrl  

        answered 2 years ago

        WELL I AM NOT LIVING WITH MY BOYFRIEND.. AND I DON'T HAVE HIS PASSWORD. BUT GUESS WHAT he HAS MINE.. AND IF I CHANGE IT HE IS ASKING ME WHAT IS THE NEW PASS WORD.. YA KNOW SOME PEOPLE CAN'T OPEN UP THE WAY SOME PEOPLE CAN. BECAUSE FIRST OF ALL WE ALL LIKE OUR LITTLE SECRETS OF COURSE AND WE TELL OUR MOM OUR SECRETS OUR BEST FRIENDS OUR SECRETS.. GIRLS ARE LIKE THAT ,,, BUT WHEN IT COMES TO A GUY AND HIS PRIVACY OH YOU CAN BET IT' IS ALL THERES.. WHY THEY STAYED FISHING TO LONG. ,,, WORKING TO LONG. WHATEVER .. IT'S NONE OF OUR BUSINESS. WELL YOU KNOW THERE IS AN OLD SAYING.. WHAT GOES AROUNG COMES AROUND WHEN HE WANTS YOU >>>>> TO TRUST HIM .. thE WORD is no>>> IF YOU CAN'T TRUST ME ,, DON'T EVER THINK i WOULD TRUST you>>> work ON BUILDING THE TRUST THEN FIND THE REASON HE DOESN'T TRUST YOU.. AND THEN COAX HIM INTO HIS PASSWORD IF YOU FEEL THAT IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER ,,,iF HE CARES ENOUGH AND TRUST YOU.. GIVING HIS PASSWORD WILL BE LIKE GIVING YOU A CHRISTMAS PRESENT.. ITS ALL ABOUT TRUST BOTTOM LINE HE IS SAYING NO YOU CAN'T TRUST ME RIGHT NOW.. I AM HIDING SOMETING..SO WAIT.. WAIT WAIT...
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        Illusionz

        Illusionz

        commented 2 years ago

        Seriously I think its two years gone already and you broke up......your boyfriend dint trust you and he had affair with some other chick from school where he use to flirt by his email.... I am answering guru :-) I can tell the future looking at your past...:-)
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        Guest

        Guest  

        answered 5 months ago

        You probably want people to give you respect regarding your schedule and privacy, no?  To come and go as you please, and not always having to explain yourself to everyone?  Everyone deserves that -- taking it away from someone (regardless of whether they have something to hide or not) will drive a larger and larger wedge between you over time, simply because the person will feel that sharing everything with you is taking from their sense of being his own person.  When someone feels that way, they'll withdraw from you -- trust me.
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        Guest

        Guest  

        answered 2 months ago

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