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    My Husband Is Extremely Jealous. I Don't Get To See My Kids Or Grandkids Often Because He Wants All The Attention. He Gets Angry When They Are Here And Acts Like A Two Year Old! What Can I Do?

    Every time my kids want to come visit I have to put up with my husbands childish behavior. I can't talk exclusively to them because he thinks we are talking about him. He doesn't even like when they call are text me. I would like to go visit them alone sometime but that is out of the question also.

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    tamarind

    Sounds like your husband is a control freak. Have you tried talking to him about this? If he truly has a controlling personality then talking may not help but it is worth a shot. I've been in your shoes with my first husband. It was no picnic. I tried and tried to hang in there but in the end I realized that he was who he was and "I" could do nothing to change him. Guess it is a matter of do you want to live the rest of your life this way if he can not change. If you went against his wants, would he hit you? I hope the best for you and don't forget it is your life and you have a right to live it. Does he allow you to tell him what he can do, whom he can have visit him or where he can go? I know this sounds harsh but I am not sorry for trying to help you to have a better life. Sometimes we make bad choices in life but we have the right to try to change the situations we get ourselves into. May God Bless You.

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      kinnonlea

      That sounds like your husband is not a very mature guy. Why in the world would someone ever try and come between you and your children. You have some thinking to do. Remember that you are grown and you decide what you do and where you go. You deserve the best of both worlds. You need a supportive husband not a controlling one. Marriages are supposed to be partnerships not dictatorships. You should be able to have your children over and all have a great time together. Your husband should cherish your children as much as you do even if they are step children to him. And if that is our of the question then he should at least love you enough to not ever deprive you of seeing your children. Talk to him and if he is not willing to budge just keep in mind that most people can not and will not change and your children no matter how old they are always need their mother in their lives. I hope it all work out for you!

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