When Will A Capricorn Man Find His Soul-mate?

I am a lucky Cap woman who had a great relationship with a man for nearly 22 years but here comes the bad news for Caps IN GENERAL......The very predominant thing about Caps is they know what they DONT want but seldom know what they do want and SO go through what I call a
process of elimination.  I was lucky the first relationship, he was good to me and my son until late in the relationship he cheated on me.  He is now married to her and I am doing the INSIPID Cap thing that MIGHT ruin the rest of my life.  MOST all Caps are like this. In my career life I did this too, changing my college major three times.  I know well what I dont want.   I am getting better at being decisive ONCE i learned this about myself (and all Caps)