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Letting Go Of My Girlfriend... How Can I Get Over?

I am breaking up with my girlfriend..I love her more than ever but I have to because I want to make things easier for her..we are in long distance..she didn't want to make the relationship hard when she moved away from me..but it's ironic that it can't be easy.. She tells me it's driving her crazy how hard to keep up the relationship..I guess I am letting her go because I don't want to be selfish.. But I will find her one day when she is ready..but it hurts too much..how can I get over?

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    Letting a girl walk out of your life may be very difficult at times,most especially when you have that true love for her.So i really feel for you and i understand what you're going through.All you need to do is just stop calling her,stop thinking about her and stop dreaming of how you two will meet again.Then,go on with your life and things will be fine.Good luck!!!
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    Mike998 

    answered 1 year ago

    Wat if you cant stop thinking about her
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    Digdig

    commented 1 year ago

      I salute you for your unselfish sacrifice. It is rare that we find a man who can put his own wants aside, and really look at the Big picture. Doing what is best for your girlfriend is an act of nobility. You want what is best for her and will make her happier. You have thus demonstrated your worthiness to have a fine woman, and a Happy relationship. I believe God will bless you. Continue on with your present life, and enjoy your friends, you never know when someone new will come into your life. Don't dwell on what you have lost, but on the things that you have. You are one special guy, and other women will see that. Hang in there with faith that you will have a good life, with a good woman. May you be blessed beyond your capability to comprehend, what good things are in store for your future.
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      Pencil 

      answered 1 year ago

        Yes, it will be hard.  Keep yourself busy, go out with friends.  Get a new hobby or just do things you like to do.  It will be very hard.  Maybe stay fiends with her and keep in touch.  Don't try and go find a new girlfriend right away, just make friends.  If you let her go, and expect to meet up with her later in life, it don't always work like that.  Most likely the girl or you will move on or both.  It will be too late.  So think about what you are doing before you do it.  Good luck, it will be hard but you can do it.
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        Lisamarie1 

        answered 1 year ago

        The only thing that can help you get over her is time. But also, just because you guys are broken up, it doesn't mean that you guys can't keep in touch. If you haven't already, you two should have a conversation talking about your feelings -- to have proper closure. And if you two still have feelings for each other, then perhaps you can make a promise or agreement that you guys will wait for each other, but at the same time, be open-minded to the idea of seeing other people, just in case someone else comes along in either of your lives.
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        Xsunnie 

        answered 1 year ago

        Just let her know you still love her but it's getting a little hard on you and her at the time and what a while and see how you two can be together again some how....good luck....
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        Alyssa2021 

        answered 1 year ago

          I am about to do the same thing.. Shes moving to arizona to follow a softball dream... She wants to try it and i do as well... What can i say man. Your cool for being able to set side your want bro. I can not do that... I love my girl and i will chase her till the end man.  I guess until she can not take it.  Be strong man. You may think no one knows what your going through but in reality we all do it man...
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          Guest 

          answered 3 months ago

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