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I'm A 16 Year Old Teen. I Think I'm Pregnant. Can You Help?

I am a 16 year old girl and i always wear protection but stupid me got drunk on the Halloween and now think i am pregnant. I have no money for abortion. What the hell do i do? I'm scared, and i cant be a mum

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    The first thing is to get a pregnancy test from your pharmacy, or your doctor if this is possible.
    Very likely you aren't pregnant: However, you are reacting very early, which is good because it means you have more time to decide what to do.  You could also enquire in your pharmacy about the possibility of taking a morning-after pill (despite the name they are commonly given, these pills aren't just for the morning after unprotected sex - you still have time.) Another option is to contact your local family planning service - you can find details here
    www.fpnsw.org.au

    They will give confidential advice, will help you decide what to do and may also be able to tell you what financial help is available.

    I hope you don't need any of this advice, but good luck.
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    Wordy 

    answered 1 year ago

      I wish you the best,but first you need to make sure you are or not,if you are start your prenatal care with some Dr. Or clinic and while going through that decide what your plans are going to be taking place for raising this child,will you keep it adopt it out? You have a lot of decisions to make,which is called grow up now,you have to make grown up decisions now,I wish you the best and hope you are able to make a decision that you can live with good luck.....
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      Bgirl525 

      answered 1 year ago

        Do you have someone, an adult to talk to? There is planned parent hood in most Counties. They can help you get the proper info you need weather you want to keep (which you said you didn't) give the baby up for adoption or have an abortion. I would def get a test. If you can't afford one again the planned parenthood in your area can do a test for you. Its confidential so no one would have to know. I think that you need to tell the boy though. He may not want the baby but its the right thing to do. If you have an open door with your parents tell one of them. This is a scary situation for such a young girl to go through without her mother.
        Good luck baby girl. I hope this helped you. I have a 13yr old and I do have an open door where she tells me everything and I know that I wouldn't want her to go through this alone. So I hope you do have an adult to talk to for support... I really wish you the best and I will pray for you tonight... GOD BLESS YOU...
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        Lboogie 

        answered 1 year ago

        I know this is very scary, but you need to relax and take a step back. Halloween was only a week ago. Most pregnancy tests don't work until about two weeks, and that includes clinical tests. It has not been enough time for the hormones to have released and show positive on a test. As difficult as it is, wait the two weeks (well at this point, just one) and in the meantime do some research on either a planned parenthood facility near you and if possible, talk with an adult. If you don't have that close of a relationship with your mom, talk to an aunt or a teacher that you feel comfortable with. It is too difficult to go through this alone. Have this person go with you to get tested. I think getting a free test from a clinic is a better bet than going to the drug store and buying an over the counter test. You want to know for sure the first time. I have taken home pregnancy tests before but I didn't feel confident with the results and went to the clinic anyways. I wouldn't tell anyone except for the one/two people you trust the most. The last thing you need are rumors going around school. I don't suggest telling the guy until you know what is going on and you have thought about what you are going to do if you are pregnant. Chances are you are just scared and you aren't really pregnant, but it is best to find out for sure. I hope you can hang in there until you get the results. Be strong and be sure about what you want to do before making any immediate decisions. Good luck honey.
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        Karen4s2 

        answered 1 year ago

        Take a pregnancy test, if it comes out positive, tell the father IMMEDIATLY and talk about options...i personally don't support abortion..but if that's what you want to do, he should help pay for it...if not, adoption is another option...go to the doctor ASAP and let a parent know.
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        Jessykavan 

        answered 1 year ago

          There are many options and many ppl you can go talk to if you feel you cant go to your friends or family. Check in your area if there are any women or teen centers you can go to. First find out if you are pregnant, then take it from there.
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          Toofunny 

          answered 1 year ago

          Well get a pregnancy test and talk to a consoler or parent...
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          Cuteone012 

          answered 1 year ago

          relax- pray - consider-- you are in a spot- but its gonna be alright-- if you are let the baby live-- abortion is a cop out..  It is this device of the unresponsible..  It is an athiestic way of doing things..

          Don't let society fool you.. You made a mistake but the baby is not..

          Wanna talk more -
          now if your not - then take better precuations.. Like- getting drunk and getting bumped are old school.. I know of guhs who got bumped all the time-- high school and college..

          Like said do whats right not popular.. And you will be alright-- think-- Don't talk to all the airheasds-- who say a baby will ruin your life..
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          Treymusic 

          answered 1 year ago

          Hi.. All I can say is abortion is not an option.. Just pray.. Everythings gonna be fine..
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          Che_rish 

          answered 1 year ago

          Take a pregnancy test
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          Mpbchick1 

          answered 7 months ago

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