My Girlfriend Has A Guy As A Best Friend, What Do I Do?
My girlfriend has a guy friend who she's known for 4 years now. In the beginning they had a thing for a eachother but for reasons that she hasn't told me, they never got together. He always calls and texts her and it drives me up the wall. Not too long ago he confessed his love to her, only to later claim he was just confused and it wasn't anything. She says he's a great friend whose always been there for her, when asked if she would let him go, she refuses. What do i do?
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Girls or guys can have people from opposite sex as their best friends. But in your case since it is causing problems, so you would have to talk it out with her. If you think that this thing can cause problems in future then you would have to rethink your decision of staying together very seriously. Otherwise, if you think you have a strong relationship and you trust her, then such things should mean nothing to you.
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Do remember she is with you and not him - don't forget that. Trust her. Hope everything works out ok. X
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If u feel that way, hang out with her friend. Try and get to know him. You may like him as a friend. Evaluate him meaning watch him and do more listening than talking cuz he'll probably give himself away. I know how u feel but after i experienced this, i said i was going to hang out with my girlfriend's friend and we ended up friends and i talk to my gurl and she said shed loved me and wasn't looking for a replacement. In a way, it's good that a woman sees jealousy in a man becuz it shows that u actually care for her and they like that. But good luck with this.
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Dude she has no respect for you and she is using you and the other guy. Use this chick for what you want until you find a new chick.
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answered 6 months ago
So she has a guy for a best friend!! You can't help who you click with! Just trust her, if you have reasons not to trust her with this guy then ok but if your just being jealous cause hes a guy well oh well dont be so sexist! Hang out with find out what hs like you eventually know your doing the right thing just by excepting it!! GOOD LUCK
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answered 6 months ago
Dude get the hell out! Run fast let her have her "best friend". Don't trust girls! They are all crazy and will cheat on you.
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answered 5 months ago
tell her how you feel and she will try to sort it out im sure. U cant ask her to ditch him coz she might end up ditching U instead coz she might think u r being 2 over protective- just tell her ur uncomfortable
bottom line think about if hes worth jeopardizing ur relationship
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I think you sould find yourself a girl best friend then your girlfriend will get jealous and the afterwards your two can discuss how you feel with each other
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