I'm A 20 Year Old Bisexual Male. How Do I Tell My Family And Friends? What Am I Suppose To Say To A Christian Family That Would Entirely Reject Me? How Do I Live With This Pain?

Wow, good for you that you want the world to know who you are and also that you wouldn't want to hurt your family. I would say that most families, after the initial shock, will still love you and want you in their lives. It may upset them at first but most parents love their children no matter what. As for the rest of the world, who cares what the rest of the world thinks? Be yourself and be proud!

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RandyDR
Good for you! My husband and I had a similar thing with his brother, His brother is gay and refuse to be the best man at our wedding because of it, at the time i new before my husband did and what i did was told my brother-in-law to come right out with it or i was not going to my wedding either and he and i would go drinking together. So what my brother-in-law did was had me with him at the time of telling his family and it made it easier for him and his family and mine love him just as much if not more. If you are the same person inside that you always were it should not be as issue. Good luck i will be thinking or you!!!!

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If your family really loves you and says they will be with you through the good and the bad, they should have understanding. It may take a while for them to understand and still see you as the person they thought you were, but be honest with them before anything bad happens.
I am not a bi-sexual and I am not a lesbian, and you may be saying well she really wouldn't understand. However, I fully understand. I struggle with an addiction and I have grown up with Christian parents who look at me as a perfect christian daughter. I would like to tell them so I do not feel this guilt and pain of trying to figure out how to say things, but its embarrassing and how will they react.
The truth is, there isn't a easy way you just have to say it and help them understand where you are coming from and that you truly want them to stay in your life. I will pray for you, even though I don't know you and I have no idea what your life is about. Tell them the truth, and while you do I will do the same :)

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