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I Am 20 And My Boyfriend Is 30. How Do You Feel About The Age Difference?

Would it make a difference if I was 19 and he was 30?

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    It may make people feel you are too young for him if you say you are 19 which is age of teenage  and he is 30 which is belong to thirties. But I think it does not matter as long as you guys get along with each other and love each other.
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    Lovelyme  

    answered 2 years ago

      It depends on how you two are together, how your personalities match and how you get along. I mean, vast age differences matter to me but honestly it all ends up with you two. My friend (21) is dating a 25yr old. He acts like 30 and she acts like 18!  Its up to you two to prove to the world you guys can make it regardless of age difference and what others say
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      Ladylena  

      answered 2 years ago

        No real problem, my dad was 8 years older than Mom, and my sister married an older man. Both had good marriages and happy lives, but both were widowed at a relatively young age, something to think about? Means living a lot of your golden years alone, unless you are one of the lucky ones to find somebody else...
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        Oldmancan  

        answered 2 years ago

        Not a problem, age is not an issue when it comes to love. I'm 34 and my bf is only 21.  Can u believe that?  But we've been together for years now and we're happy.
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        Yenoh  

        answered 2 years ago

        Well I don't think age matters as long as you both are happy with the relationship.I'm 16 and my bf is 29.We're completely happy with everything. We've been togther for a year now. Everything is perfect.
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        Herkedjaz  

        answered 2 years ago

        How does your family feel about you dating a 29 year old
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        Costarican

        commented 6 months ago

          You have an ideal age gap. You must realize that women, because of childbearing, usually age faster than men. So be happy with it. Good luck to you both. My best wishes!!!!
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          Amazona58  

          answered 2 years ago

          It's fine.I'm only 16 and my bf is 20,but were perfect for each-other.
          His sister is my age,which was a bit weird at first but
          I've been told all my life I was mature for my age,and he seems to think so.
          So i guess it depends on the people,how they get along and overall maturity.
          If your in love,don't let age stop you!
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          Guest  

          answered 7 months ago

             
             

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