How Do I Deal With This?
Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship and he lives in North Carolina and i live in West Virigina i moved away about 2months ago from North Carolina. And he's coming up this summer and I'm so scared of saying bye again to him..how are some ways i can better deal with this?
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Tell your North Carolina crush that you have a new crush in West Virginia and to forget about coming to West Virginia to rob you of your adolescence.
Date as many people as possible while you are a teenager. The things you learn about how to interact with people will be very valuable throughout your life. You will also gain a better understanding of what to expect from a partner. It is the little things that can drive you nuts and everyone has different "little things". Avoid steady relationships until you have more control over your life. You should at least be able to decide for yourself where to live before you start thinking of tying up with someone for the long term. If you have an education and a source of income before you commit to someone romantically, you will be much happier in the long run.
Date as many people as possible while you are a teenager. The things you learn about how to interact with people will be very valuable throughout your life. You will also gain a better understanding of what to expect from a partner. It is the little things that can drive you nuts and everyone has different "little things". Avoid steady relationships until you have more control over your life. You should at least be able to decide for yourself where to live before you start thinking of tying up with someone for the long term. If you have an education and a source of income before you commit to someone romantically, you will be much happier in the long run.
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Came across one of your answers and decided to investigate. The first part not so much, I'm a fan of honesty, but the second part is some of the best advice you can give a teenage girl. Doubt she'll listen, but if she does she'll be WAY ahead of the game.
Thanks. I thought the first part was most honest.
EVEN I LOVED YOUR FIRST PART BUT THEN HOW I WISH THAT COULD BE DONE DIRECTLY.
WE CAN'T LET OTHER ONE FEEL THAT HE/SHE IS ACTUALLY DISTURBING US AGAIN EMOTIONALLY(ESPECIALLY UNKNOWINGLY)
WE CAN'T LET OTHER ONE FEEL THAT HE/SHE IS ACTUALLY DISTURBING US AGAIN EMOTIONALLY(ESPECIALLY UNKNOWINGLY)
Look for a good relationship where you are residing now.
all above mentioned steps are very difficult to implement but then that is the best possible way to avoid getting used to him & meanwhile get involved in people surrounding you.
- if he comes there greet him but don't hang out with him(it is definitely very tough) & keep yourself busy with your new friends.
- i am saying this because if you don't ignore him when he arrives then you will get used to him again & will get depressed if he leaves again.
- no need to introduce him to new friends(i know it can be difficult) coz if he become friends with any of them, then you'll again start listening of him from other friends even if he leaves, that will make you miss him more.
- if he calls you to talk over phone, then its ok(a bit), but make excuses to meet. Coz if you meet him then chances of getting used to him will increase.
all above mentioned steps are very difficult to implement but then that is the best possible way to avoid getting used to him & meanwhile get involved in people surrounding you.
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Well that relationship lasted for 3 months and wasn't worth it..but thanks for your advice
GOD BLESS YOU!
MAY YOUR BEST MATCH MEETS YOU SOON!
MAY YOUR BEST MATCH MEETS YOU SOON!
Mine relationship is also like that v r staying at too long distance ........ N v got to meet after 4 or 5 months n when he comes to see me i m also very scared to say bye but when d moment of leaving him comes i hug him and cry i feel relaxed that time n always believe that you r getting separated coz you have to meet each other again........... N wait till next time
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Figure out a way you don't have to say goodbye.. If you love him so much you will find a way to make it work together.
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