How Do I Tell If My Gf Really Loves Me?
Well, sometimes I feel like maybe my girlfriend doesn't love me. I've thought and thought about it, but I'm just not sure anymore. When she's over, she seems a little bored or annoyed, though its been a little more recent that this started. And while talking on the phone she tends to draw out her ok's like why are you telling me this, or who cares . I just don't know anymore and I need help.
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It's difficult to know another's heart. Sometimes people don't even know their own heart or feelings. Sometimes we interpret certain behaviors of others according to our own experiences and preconceptions, and this leads to further confusion.
It's possible your girlfriend could have a number of reasons for her behavior, but if you're doubting, it seems to me talking about it with her might be the most direct way to get to the heart of things.
When someone truly loves another person, they consider their love's needs on par with their own. They are respectful of the feelings of their partner as much as they consider their own. Their actions over the long haul demonstrate that they respect and care about the well being of their partner. If these things don't seem to be happening the majority of the time in your relationship, then I think you have reason to be concerned and explore with your girlfriend what your mutual feelings really are.
It's possible your girlfriend could have a number of reasons for her behavior, but if you're doubting, it seems to me talking about it with her might be the most direct way to get to the heart of things.
When someone truly loves another person, they consider their love's needs on par with their own. They are respectful of the feelings of their partner as much as they consider their own. Their actions over the long haul demonstrate that they respect and care about the well being of their partner. If these things don't seem to be happening the majority of the time in your relationship, then I think you have reason to be concerned and explore with your girlfriend what your mutual feelings really are.
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Thanks. And your right. But what if I'm shy and also think that if I confront her she might get mad or something. Also, Im not sure I know my heart right now
Well I understand you may feel shy and a bit afraid of rocking the boat. But someone who is angry because you ask a question about how they are feeling,and are tyring to explain what you have been feeling lately doesn't love you. On the other matter, I agree it is also important to know your own heart. Do take time to consider it, also, maybe using the same kinds od questions you would ask to know if she loves you. Good luck to you.
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