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I Like 2 Guys Who Are Best Friends Help?

I’ve had a crush on my best guy friend for a yr but he has a gf. While I’ve been waiting it out I think I’ve developed a crush on his best friend. I want to tell my friend my feelings toward him, but that'd ruin any chance of being w/ his friend and if he didn't feel the same..... I really like my guy friend but I also like his friend-who DOESN’T have a gf. What am I supposed to do?

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    Well first you need to stop being selfish. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If one of the guys has a girlfriend, it would be a bad idea to try to wait it out because they could be together for a long time, maybe even get married. If you like the other guy then tell him you like him. But you'll need to let go of your feelings for the guy with the girl or you'll have a lot of conflicted feelings.
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    Tmbaker 

    answered 5 months ago

      Hi,
      You really have yourself in a pickle, this is where morals come into play and you have to do some soul searching and be honest with herself.  Is what you are feeling for these guys worthy destroying a relationship between you and them, and between the two of them.  Somewhere deep inside you already know what you should do, and where you see the wrong and the right of things, trust what's inside and be ready to deal with the fallout of it all. Don't rush into doing anything until you are truly ready to make the decision, only fools rush in remember. Good Luck
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      Lorraine81 

      answered 5 months ago

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