I Called My Friend To Stop This Friendship Between Us. He Says That He Is Busy And Some Other Reasons. I Am In A Dilemma. What Should I Do?

The first thing is why do you want to end the friendship? Its such a hard and painful thing to do. I want you to be sure about what you are doing before you cut them out of your life.

The fact that you want to speak to them to end it shows that you care! You could just stop talking to them, ignore them, not return their calls, but you want to make contact.

I imagine that this person is avoiding you because they don't want to lose your friendship. They could just be busy, but perhaps they know they are going to get hurt!

No-one likes to be hurt or lose a friend or someone they care about. Perhaps you should arrange a time to get together and talk properly. Look at what's wrong and if it can be fixed. Cool the friendship for a while of you have to and see what you miss about each other. Unless they have done something to really hurt you, don't cut them out. And even if they have, it may be the worst thing your friendship ever faces - could you forgive them?

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