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How Can You Get Your Best Friend To Talk To You Again After A Fight?

OK i knew my best friend sense we was 3 years old and got separated and found each other again. And know we are almost the same age and she wont talk to me because i told her that she let people control her.

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    You may need to apologize even if you feel as through you were right. You can say you apologize for the way everything came about.
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    Mwog 

    answered 2 years ago

      Here is how its going to work. You need to give them time. The number one problem with most friendships is that voicing yourself can be taken more as a criticism than a constructive one. If she cannot forgive you or understand what your true intentions were then she is not a suitable friend. I really only have one side of the story so a reasonable response is hard to come by perhaps I could help more in depth if I had more info.
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      Teigh89 

      answered 2 years ago

        Sometimes people are over-sensitive, especially when what you're saying it true. You don't say how old you are but a short note rarely goes wrong. Mention that you feel badly, that you didn't want to lose her as a friend again but that you were only trying to help her realise that she's letting people walk all over her. As a good friend, it's your duty to protect her from things like this.
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        Chilledpip 

        answered 2 years ago

        ok i am 18 about to be 19 and she is 19
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        Heluvme

        commented 2 years ago

        Let things blow off for  a min. Sent  a card or something to say i am sorry or could we still be friends again.
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        Cathyyy41 

        answered 2 years ago

        First you must admit to the problem that you were fighting about and then u must accept that you are wrong or right and you must be willing to let it go and put it behind you.  Then you need to talk to your friend if they will and apologize for the problem and let them know that it is behind you now and ask them if they are willing to let it go.  If they want talk to you write them a note and apologize let them know that you love them and you were wrong and you want to make up. If you make up do something that they like to do and have  a great time doing it. Remember to always live life to the fullest and never go to bed mad we don't know when it will be the last time. Say what you have to say while you are here because flowers can't tell the story if you are not.
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        Mayoinc 

        answered 2 years ago

          I have fallen out with a mate over some silly argument as well, but i do reckon you need to just give them time to miss you. Dont contact them or send letters just say your apology and leave it at that. Then leave it up to them. If they dont come around there not worth having in your life then because true friends would let it go and forgive you. But the more you contact them the more they will pull away.
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          Guest 

          answered 5 months ago

          If ur really sorry ...apologise to her!!..........if shes still mad at you...........dont get annoyed ....keep smiling n be normal..........give her a sweet sorry card.......write about your times together,your songs...also write about how much she means to you....throw in some quotes and jokes .....if she smiles after reading the card, that means she has forgiven u....give it a try....im sure it'll work!!
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          Guest 

          answered 5 months ago

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